so against my better judgement I did not tell FH my fears about letting his soon to be ex con bioson stay at our house. I will however not do that again, that little bastard came to my HOME and acted like he was the boss. Tuesday the 23rd the weather was awful it took me nearly 2 hours to get home- a ride that usually takes 45 min. I get home the skids were already there, (so much for relaxing), as I was taking off my wet shoes, goodfornutin comes up behind me and starts talking over my head like I wasnt even there. I looked up and say well hello jackass (insert real name) and he acknowledged my greeting ..barely - soooo I let it go. right- NOT 15 min later this azz, is saying some awful thing to his sister (words my sons never use in the house) and I ripped into him astonished that FH just sat there and let this boy talk to his daugher like she was a piece of trash, ut uh not in my house, so NOT an hour later, he is on her again about the stupid computer, nasty mouth -(ok I have a potty mouth every now and then but geezz this boy uses it like a weapon) so I said enough and unplugged the computer so NONE of them could use it. what did FH do you ask???? anyone want to gues??? yup Nada...so we went to bed, and I asked him what was up and all he could say was that he wanted everyone to have a good time and be happy. I told him that -that would never happen as long as jackass continued to treat people like he does. I told him that for him to let bs to treat bd and other bs like dirt then he is saying it is ok to be treated like that. that by NOT saying anything is like giving permission. I told FH that his son was a aszhle and that he is not welcomed here anymore and I will NOT treat him with respect anymore either.
FH was not happy but understood
ss behaved for the most part on the 24th and we dumped the lot of them off at exw house at 7pm ..phew.. there is more to come ...ss shows what a real jerk he is on the 26th!