BM called to let SS know that her sister had the baby and she is going to drive him an hour tom. to see the baby for an hour and then drive him home an hour because tom. she only gets her son for 3 hours on wed. and instead of waiting for the weekend, which is her weekend for him to see the baby, he is 5 and does not even like babies, she is going to drive for 2 out of her 3 hours with her son who she has not seen in 6 days.Plus she gets him thurs. nights during the summer on her weekends so he gets to drive another hour on thurs. night to her new hour an hour away and then drive an hour on sunday when she brings him home, wow sounds fun to a five year old, I thought parents were suppose to care about "there" child. I know she wants him to see the baby but could not it wait one more day instead of making him ride in a car for 2 out of the 3 hours he will see her tom.? I just can not understand anything she does!!! I hope her sister having a baby makes BM feel like the loser she is, she is 30, moving again for the 7th time in under 4 years and I have no idea how many jobs, she wants another kid, but has no man and rents a one BR apartment an hour away from her only child, she claims to have no money for CS but has no problem blowing it when she wants to do something, whatever, will I EVER get over feeling this way, I want my own baby and we are trying will having my own make me a better step- mom and foster mom and forget about what his ex is doing. I am a great mom dont get me wrong but I wonder if having one of my own will give me a softer side??