I need advice, same advice I usually need. We had to see BM today at SS soccer game and just on wed. she threatened to take DH back to court and now on Sat. she tries to be best buddies. DH has custody and she just moved again for the 7th time and has a new job again for the 5th time so I am not worried about court. I am not worried about him going back to her, I hate that she can freak out one day and the next day she talks to DH about her taking her son to a NASCAR race tomorrow and that her sister is coming to watch the game, well her sister got lost because eveyone in her family lives an hour away from the child including her, she just moved an hour away in July. So DH never is rude, he tries to keep the peace because it makes life easier and I get that, but I do not like it. I want to smack her in her stupid little face. She asked DH about us taking him to Hershey and if her son liked the rides, and DH said yes he loves them and he loves the water rides now too. She was talking how she might take him another place because it is like Hershey but cheaper. because last time they went somewhere he made her ride all the rides, well he still does, he does not like riding alone. SO I told her the chocolate factory is free and that is his favorite part and again she must think I am dead and she said nothing. She told DH where she was camping and my DH said yep that is where we stayed. I think it is a riot that she can afford to do all of this, I know her budget and bills do to court and every month she must be at least 300 in the whole so I am not sure how she is paying for things, unless she sells herself at night and still she would not get that much!!! SO help me be able to be calm about her, I hated DH talking so much but everyone in my family says it is the right thing to do, let her be crazy and that DH is doing the right thing by being civil they do have a child together, I did not care at all if her sister made it to the game or not, so why does DH need to help psyco get her sister to the game. I know when I think about he is only being civil and that is the best to do with a kid involved, I mean what should he ignore her, no that is why he won in court because they said he was the better parent to promote positive feelings toward the other parent, that BM can not put her feelings aside about me, to be able to promote a good relationship with dad and a few other reasons, like DH being more stable, never being arrested, not moving his sons daycare 9 times in 2 years like BM did. SO how do I stop hating her and getting in fights with DH, because I love him soooo much and at the end of the game when she left I was mad and told him he does not need to be that nice, which me getting mad upsets him he is able to forget about BM the second she leaves and wishes I could too, so how can I do that because I do not want to be mad or even think about her either. I want to love my man and my family and allow her to have her miserable 5 days a month with her son and I will raise him the other 25 days a month!!!! HELP,HELP,HELP:)