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Submitted by Rosedeer1 on Sat, 01/17/2009 - 9:37am

I just wanted to let you all know that we are not done with court, my DH was on the stand for 4 hours and I was on the stand for 2, so now on Thurs. her side goes. I did want to let you kow how it went. I think it went well they had copies of my myspace account and tried to misuse some of my comments, they believe I directed them to her. For example on said I feel sorry for you, I have what you want, however that had nothing to do with her it was to a friend and I was messing around. Then because I wrote I have 2 kids they tired to act like I would lie to get full custody so I can be SS mommy, that is not the case, I told the lawyer I do not feel the need to go into detail on my myspace account that I have a step son and a foster daughter I just say I have 2 kids. Anyone who knows me knows who they are, why do I need to announce to stangers they are my step and foster??? Not to mention in foster class they tell us not to use step and foster because it makes the child feel that you do not want them. I guess I should not worry to much if that is all they have on me in 3 years and they can not even prove I wrote the comments to her. Those comments could have been directed to anyone, its not like I put her name by it and actually they were not directed to her I was messing with a friend that day and keep changing my comments. I hope the judge can see through her petty bullshit and we get full custody, my myspace page has nothing to do with how well of a father my DH is!!!

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Submitted by melis070179 on Sat, 01/17/2009 - 10:28am

You should have your page set to private so they can't see it!

"Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. There's too much fraternizing with the enemy"

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Submitted by Rae on Sat, 01/17/2009 - 1:21pm

I got in trouble with that one. BM's coworker had been harassing me with myspace spams and I put a comment in my mood about wishing the harassment would stop and the harasser would find a life of her own, as my myspace is private. BM assumed it was to her! And then sent emails threatening to take me to court for harassment...OMG...shows how bent she is. She is going to take me to court because she looked up my private myspace page and found a comment that was not directed to her. Oh boy, I was hoping she'd try that one! Can you imagine the judge's reaction!!!

Of course, once she made that assumption, I knew she was behind all of the spamming....initially I had given her the benefit of doubt thinking maybe the coworker was doing it on her own. But no. Most interesting part of all this, is later coworker apologized to me for her behavior and her nieces behavior, and said that BM had put them up to it and it caused all kinds of problems in the workplace. BM was eventually fired. Not necessarily because of this, but she evidently was not doing a good job, and was having problems with coworkers.

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Submitted by Amazed on Sat, 01/17/2009 - 1:45pm

I'm constantly posting my mood on facebook, one time she was crying to my husband about losing some stupid diamond rings and then she called at 11pm to say she found them! Woohoo!! So my facebook post read, "Barbie is SO happy a certain whining someone found her rings, now hopefully finding a life is next on her to do list."
my dh gave me a lot of crap for that one...since she has a facebook account and we have a friend in common on there... i just batted my eyes innocently and pulled an SD move by saying,"you misunderstood me!! I wasn't implying anything rude!"

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Submitted by stepmasochist on Sat, 01/17/2009 - 2:37pm

I would have had a tough time not giving a huge eye roll over the stupid myspace stuff.
I mean, if I remember correctly, they're comparing a few dumb comments to allowing your kid to be covered in flea bites. How crazy is that???

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Submitted by Most Evil on Sun, 01/18/2009 - 11:58am

to save their case! How awful to have to be on the stand that long, its like you are being charged with wanting to be married to your DH!! I am sure the judge will see through all this, this is just ridiculous.

"A lie told often enough becomes the truth." - Vladimir Lenin