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Blended family and inheritance.

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What does evey think.

Who gets what? Do Skids get equal shares to Bios? How is it distributed between yours/mine/ours?

Some very close family friends had a challenge with this. The wife died after ~35 years of marriage. Several years later her surviving spouse married the mother of their oldest child's wife who was also widow'd.

Our family friends had two children, who were ~28 (married to his future step sister) and 23 (unmarried at the time) when their mom died. The new wife (and oldest child's MIL) had 6.

If one spouse is on their first marriage and the other on their second ...

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So, which statistic applies if one spouse is on their first marriage and the other is on their second (third, fourth, etc....) as far as longivity of the marriage and risk of divorce?

And, if the BioParent you are married to was not married to the other bio parents of your Skid what the hell does that mean statistically speaking as far as longivity of the current marriage.

I am on my second marriage. XW and I did not spawn. My wife was an out-of-wedlock teen mom and had our kid (my Skid) at 16.

How screwed are we?????? :?

Just wondering?

The Mid Visitation manipulations are in full swing.

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My wife and I just got to Houston after a week vacation/road trip and are continuing our house hunting.

The SpermClan is in full swing of manipulating SS-17 in to staying in SpermLand rather than joining his mom and I our new home. They do not want to have to continue to pay CS while SS is in college and think that getting him to stay in SpermLand will get them off of the hook for CS.

The text conversation from last night.

I SHALL CAST JUDGEMENT!!!

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In my duties as Grand Exalted Master of the Universe (GEMOTU) as my son (SS-17) has so granted me all of the rights, responsibilities, priveledges and power there of I shall now cast judgement on all inferior underlings.

I am right and if you do not agree with me you are WRONG! Biggrin

Do as I say and all will be right with the universe and those who give you crap will be shown as the toothless moronic intellectually deficient dip shits that they are.

My wife's flight is delayed and instead of getting in a 8:55 she won't be in until 10:40

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I hate the Philly airport. Those union morons could not get a flight out on time if you strapped pidgeons to their asses, tossed bird seed in the air and made them carry the plane.

I can't even count the number of times I have waited for hours to leave Philly, or waited on the tarmac for hours after landing for a ground crew to get to the gate, or for hours to get my bag once we landed because one union or another was taking a long break in an attempt to get a raise or protest some perceived management transgression.

This place is rockin and I am lovin it!

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And everyone for the most part is playing nice.

Those of you who are not know who you are!

Okay here is my abreviated opinion on todays hot topics.

1. IF there is a CS order in place then BOTH BioParents should have to work FULL TIME.

2. Life goes on even when the Skids are not in your home. Go on vacation when you want to and whether they are there or not. If the other parent refuses to allow the Skids to go on vacation with your family that is on the other BioParent not you or your spouse. Have fun on vacation.

My 16yo niece thinks my 17yo SS has something wrong with him and is immature.

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And she is absolutely right. My SS has been at my parents for the past week helping prepare for an RV trip that my parents are taking all of the grandsons (my SS-17, Nephew 13 and Nephew 8 ). My neice is taking a trip to NYC with her Mom instead of going on the RV trip while my Bro heads overseas for work.

My niece's two friends (16) have visited several times and my 17yo SS would rather get goofy with my younger nephews than interface with my neice and her friends who are more his peers.

A question for the ladies. Or any one else that may have an answer.

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As most Stalkers know, my son (SS-17) has completely failed to mature since about 5th grade. He is absolutely devoid of any thoughts of his future or motivation to do anything.

I have been massaging he and my wife in the direction of the Marine Corps (it is the service most likely to keep their foot up his ass enough for him to actually accomplish something) or less energetically to another of the services.

Leaving tomorrow for a week road trip. Just the Skid and I. Cross your fingers that I can stay positive.

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I don't want to make this a week long lecture on his less than sterling HS career or his complete non action on getting in to college.

If I can ignore his core personality it should be a fun trip.

Who am I kidding. THIS IS GONNA SUCK!

Best regards,

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