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Happy New Year and a prosperous 2011 to all the Stalkers.
I hope the New Year finds everyone well and that the year is a good one for all.
Best regards,
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Why is it that adults seem to have little ability to recognize the need for different dicipline for older and younger kids?
There is a fairly consistent current the crops up in blogs where a parent tries to hold a young child accountable for something in the same way an older child was held accountable for a similar infraction. :?
This also seems to crop up when a Sparent once disciplined a Skid years ago and now a young joint child is the target of retribution in discipline from the BioParent of the Skid.
When SS met my parents.
His mom and I had been dating for a few months. Mom and Dad flew in for college graduation (mine and my younger brothers). It was Feb 1994. I picked up my GF and her kid and brought them to my condo to meet my parents. The Skid, then 1yo, had a raging cold and was a little snot ball. My dad had a raging cold and was miserable.
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We had a great Christmas but the 27th SUCKED THE MIGHTY WONG!!!!!!!!!
Christmas Eve was great. Christmas day was incredible. Mom's birthday (Dec 26th) was very nice. It is odd having a mother who is nearly a year younger than I am. She turned 46 day before yesterday . Add 20yrs to get her real age.
What is it with ladies, high heels, cuffed slacks and busting your asses?
My beautiful bride caught her heel in her cuffed slacks and busted her ass on the escalator at work today. She is okay but a little scraped,bruised and sore. I spent several hours massaging her bruised and sore legs and butt this evening while trying to avoid the half dozen or so bandages on her scrapes.
But .... holy crap .... she does this about once ever three or so years. I am all for fashion and dressing stylishly but not when it hurts.
"bioParents" .... Word Spellcheck flags the correct spelling as ......... "bipolarity" .... LMAO
For many of our Skids, this definition holds true for at least one of their genetic contributors.
Ha!
Breakfast with mom and dad Rags last weekend. The Skid threw his BioDad under the bus.
We were at breakfast on Sat AM. My mom, my dad, my wife and I were discussing how so many people we know never get past their teens as far as judgment is concerned and how so many of them expect others to pull their beans out of the fire when they repeatedly screw up.
My SS-18 was not actively participating in the conversation and was apparently in his usual state of half catatonic doze. During a lull he said "I know someone just like that". We all got very quiet when he spoke up. We knew who he was referring to.
When these kids have an idiot manipulative parent why don't they just unzip their fly and piss on the the idiot parent's leg?
I will make an assumption. Most of us were raised not to take crap from anyone. Most of us were also raised to respect our parents.
However, most of us would not take the crap that many of our skids take from the idiot parent in the blended family opposition.
Life lesson for the Skid - He did not qualify for the AF linquistics program. He missed it by 2pts.
He needed 100pts out of 200. He got 98. He is very disappointed.
He needs some time to get through this so I am going to give him a few days to work it out.
I was supportive and told him that this test was an aptitude test and not an intelligence test like the ASVAB is. All this is telling him is that he does not have a high level of aptitude for languages. The military is very proficient in finding where a person fits. With his ASVAB scores they will find a place for him that will take advantage of his intelligence and potential.
Booooorrrrrinnnnnnggggggggg Christmas Season!
No calls from the SpermClan.
No manipulation by SpermGrandMa.
No whinning by the SpermIdiot.
No pre visitation behavioral melt down by SS.
Ho! Ho! Ho! Hum. Yawwwwwnnnnnnn.
I waited nearly 17yrs to get out from under the Custody/Visitation/Support CO and to put the SpermClan behind me.
It is strange that I kind of miss the drama. But only for a second.
Merry RamaChrismaHannuQuanza!
Best Regards,
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