We were at breakfast on Sat AM. My mom, my dad, my wife and I were discussing how so many people we know never get past their teens as far as judgment is concerned and how so many of them expect others to pull their beans out of the fire when they repeatedly screw up.

My SS-18 was not actively participating in the conversation and was apparently in his usual state of half catatonic doze. During a lull he said "I know someone just like that". We all got very quiet when he spoke up. We knew who he was referring to.

My Mom gave him a big hug and kiss on the cheek and said "We love you (Skid), the important thing is that you are not like that and that you make every effort to be the best person you can be." SS responded "I am trying Deema".

He really is a good kid. I look forward to him becoming a viable adult and man of standing in his community. With a few notable exceptions, it has been a pleasure raising him as my own.