Thank you to all my Stalk friends!

So after blogging you all have made me realize what I need to really say to my DH. I sent DH a text and I rarely do this unless it's something kinky This is what I sent.
"I'm upset becasue when anyone has disrespected you I have defended you. I don't think about it. It's a natural reaction. You don't do the same for me and that hurts. I don't want to have to beg you to defend me that is humiliating."

I am going to let this sink in and if he still doesn't understand why I am upset then he is not the man I thought he was. I am not going to argue about it with him anymore. This is just something he has to figure out on his own. Dh is just going to have to realize I am not going to be my old self again. This has depressed me and depressed people are not themselves.

I have to be with him tonight becasue of DD's game and I'm the coach. After that I will be locked in my room reading

___________________________________________The Almost True Story of Andi and Dax

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Good for you...You said it

Good for you...You said it and it is up to him to respond. But, at least he knows how you feel.

Thanks guys! It really did

Thanks guys! It really did take me typing it all out to realize the best way to express hurt to him. All he has written back is "U are the world to me." I am not going to respond. I am just going to go on about my day. This evening is going to be tuff. I feel numb towards him now, but when I see his face I know I will fall for it.

Oh that face! Yep, but at

Oh that face! Yep, but at least now I can cover that face up with the picture of SD's latest online bashing of me. So glad I found it.

HA HA yeah I thought about

HA HA yeah I thought about that but with his job and his cheap phone I understand LOL.

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Not "the world, less anyone I

Not "the world, less anyone I deem more important at the time."
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Ok I have to barrow this tonight! I can't just let him think he can just say these things he has to show it. My DH has no problem going after a man that is hitting on me. He once stopped right in the middle of a set and jumped off the stage to grab a guy who was twice his size because Dh thought he was grabbing my ass. That is not defending me. To me that is him defending his "property". Really he has never been good at standing up for my character. At the same time I often don't give him a chance to because I do it myself. In this situation I wasn't there so there is NO EXCUSE!