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SD faked her pregnancy!

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Submitted by Patsy on Wed, 05/21/2014 - 9:41am

This past weekend was a complete mess. We were celebrating DH's birthday with friends at camp. My DH and DD are musicians and they were performing with my DH's band when SD showed up in the middle of their second set. We were not expecting SD so there was the first initial shock just that she was there. I think my FIL or MIL must have told her where we were. SD was the first to meet my Dh when he was done playing and I see them hugging and SD crying. My DD came over to tell me that SD lost her baby. I was of course sorry for her and wanted to talk to her about it.

Visions of an 80's horror film.

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Submitted by Patsy on Wed, 05/14/2014 - 11:53am

This weekend is my DH's birthday celebration. He has decided we get together with some of his friends and set up camp for the weekend. That sounded so good to me in the beginning then DH tells me last night my in-laws are going to come up Saturday night. I have two sets since his parents are divorced. I wanted to scream, but I held it together and just said OK. There are many things my in-laws disagree on, but both sets agree I should be helping DH out by reconciling with my SD17 and allowing her back in our home. I feel like this weekend is going to be so unbearable now.

Update on the Twittering Twit

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Submitted by Patsy on Fri, 05/09/2014 - 10:12am

I got home with little time to get to the ball fields. That was the way I planned it so I wouldn't get into an argument with Dh before DD's game. I had the picture I had taken of SD's tweet saying how nice it would be if I would just die in my pocket just waiting for the moment when DH wanted to talk to me. For a minute I thought we would get to the game without any questions, but no DH couldn't hold off.

Oh you stupid twittering twit!

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Submitted by Patsy on Thu, 05/08/2014 - 2:41pm

This makes my day. So I was looking for anything not to have to go home and cave into my DH. I do not know what SD posted about me on FB since she is blocked, but her twitter is public. I took a picture of the post.

"I can't even go to my Dad's house! I hate her. I wish she would die already. Everyone would be happier if she did."

Oh how I can't wait to show DH it was posted just a few minutes after their "date"! How is he going to twist this one?

Thank you to all my Stalk friends!

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Submitted by Patsy on Thu, 05/08/2014 - 12:45pm

So after blogging you all have made me realize what I need to really say to my DH. I sent DH a text and I rarely do this unless it's something kinky Wink This is what I sent.
"I'm upset becasue when anyone has disrespected you I have defended you. I don't think about it. It's a natural reaction. You don't do the same for me and that hurts. I don't want to have to beg you to defend me that is humiliating."

Can he really think this woman can be honest?

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Submitted by Patsy on Thu, 05/08/2014 - 11:25am

I get home and DH has prepped all the flower beds and mowed the lawn. He has NEvER touched the flower beds so I figure he is trying to get on my good side. I just can't even look at him. He apologized, but I don't think he knows what he is apologizing for! I told him the exact reasons why I am upset with him. He is pushing me to allow MSD to come to our house. He agreed that there has been no change in SD's behavior. So he backs away from that for a bit, but then brings up the whole FB bashing. He is trying to turn it even more now that he really doesn’t think she did that.

I knew better!

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Submitted by Patsy on Tue, 05/06/2014 - 11:38pm

Some of you may recall in my last blog how happy I was that DH and SD were working on their relationship instead of focusing in on me.. Well that lasted almost a week. Of course the focus is back on me. It took me 15 years to finally tell my DH that my Sd17 was not welcome in my home any longer. He agreed and that has been since Christmas. During this entire time I think they have met up 3 times. SD is married and pregnant and living in a house with only her husband. I don't think it is too much to ask of him to visit with her there or anywhere except for our house.

Imagine...they are trying to work this out on their own!

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Submitted by Patsy on Fri, 05/02/2014 - 8:21am

Some of you might remember that I did not want to speak to my SD (it's been since Christmas) because frankly I felt nothing good would come of it. I was still running way too hot. I didn't do what the entire family asked of me, which was to basically to try to fix everything for my SD and DH. I just could not do it. Until she is able to show her father respect and he is able to speak clearly to her I just did not want to get involved.

Worry about your own relationship with your kid!

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Submitted by Patsy on Tue, 04/22/2014 - 10:41am

I have not spoken to my SD17 in four months. I stepped out from everything and I mean everything. The only way I will ever let her around me or in my home is if I am able to go toe to toe with her. I will not let anyone dictate to me what to say to her. She is married and having a child, therefore she is an adult and I will treat her as such. I am a straight shooter not a mean person there is a difference.

Was it all for nothing?

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Submitted by Patsy on Wed, 02/05/2014 - 4:47pm

Strange I really missed SD17 at one point. After being there for 15 years of her life I truly thought not having her in my life was going to be much harder than it is proving to be. SD doesn't contact me or come over anymore and I am not upset. It isn't like it has been years, it has only been about 2 months and I am already over it. What does that say about all the years I put into our relationship? I have been looking into activities for our upcoming vacation and really can not think of one reason of why I would miss her on this trip.

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