I bope he doesn't try to say her account must have been hacked or something equally silly. Interesting that you are at the very tip top of her mind after their date. I love going out to dinner, and definitely would not be thinking about my stepparent!

WOW!! What a little twit. DH really needs to tell her to lay off of his wife!!

Can't you just unblock her FB and look real quick and then block her again?

When I was 11 or 12 my dad found a folded-up note I wrote to my girlfriend, a pissy bitchy prepubescent rant about how I wish he'd go away because I was being punished for some dumb thing or another (maybe I said "die" too - I was a shit!). He was devastated. He couldn't even look at me without getting a sad expression and walking away. I was horrified by how much my mean words affected him.

Does your nearly-adult SD have any clue what a bitch she is? Even at 11/12 I felt like a bad person to have written those hateful words down.

Could your DH try the quiet, "I'm so hurt and ashamed by what you tweeted," and leave it at that? See if she responded to that?

Or would she just make excuses and be more obnoxious?

When I was first scrolling and saw your post I thought it said "twirking twit" lol...

Although, that might have been better. What a brat! I'm sorry! That would upset me too. Seriously though, haven't these parents taught their precious snowflake that once you put things on the internet they are out there and to be responsible.

That would really hurt my feelings if I saw something like that said about me.
I hope DH knows she was talking about you and doesn't try to sugar coat it.
Wow....

A lot of states are adopting pretty harsh cyber bullying laws these days thanks to the recent suicides of teens due to cyber bullying. You might consider looking into the laws on this in your state and show that to SD and DH and let them know that if it continues you might think about taking legal action.

This is terrible. If SD ever said this about me she would never be welcome in my home again. She recently told BM im a bitch, and i'm seriously considering whether or not shes allowed back in my house again.

Oh Patsy, that really stings, shame on her!! Time for her to learn your words have consequences little girl. I agree with what someone said before, check on the cyber bullying laws in your area and put a helluva scare into her.

I truly, truly hope your DH pulls his head out of his ass, I'm sorry to say such things about him, but I'm so mad for you. He needs to man up and put her in her place. If you want I will come to where you are and throw a softball at him, I still can throw pretty good and I bet I still have decent aim or better yet when your SD gets un-pregnant I'll throw one at her }:)

Sounds like the little princess is p*ssed she isn't winning this. I'm not sure you could prove bullying or harassment though as she didn't actually address you or post to you (you'll have to check into that).

I'd most want an apology from your DH. Either the little twit lied to her father and thinks he's an idiot playing him with the fake 'oh I miss OP (insert sniff sniff)' or he lied to you. You'll have no part of him lying to you and no little brat who wishes you dead will ever cross your doorway.

The SD can hate you all she pleases (he can't make her 'like' you), but he can make sure she comes nowhere near you or your home and he can sincerely apologize for the hateful things his daughter is capable of. No more excuses. It's right there on her page under her name. She may wish you were dead, but she is now officially 'dead' to you. Done. Finished. And you expect him to respect your wishes and not only keep her away from your home but also keep his damn mouth shut about her, not one more lie and/or excuse, SD has said it all...you don't desire to discuss the 'dead', the SD does not exist for you anymore.

Our lives are so similiar I cant begin to tell you.

And I look at SD18's twitter it is how I look so fucking wise to my husband because he is just amazed that I can predict the future.

SD has always indirect tweeted about me on her public page. Let her tweet. She can sit on a twitter branch and tweet all day about me like the song bird she is. Doesnt change the fact that she wants her Dad to leave me and he hasnt. He didnt when she was 11, he didnt when she was 18 and he wont when she is 25.

And Im 44 years old a full grown adult. I am not changing who I am. If she wants me gone she is gonna have to wait til I die. Sorry

This reminds me of the turning-point in my non-relationship with my OSD25. She was 16 I think, and left me a bitch of a note on a stool in my home after I had just arranged for DH to take the three of them out to a fabulous late evening party event in the middle of town, just after a great BBQ lunch that I had laid on at home straight after I had arranged for a tour of a picturesque part of our city for them and DH in the morning. Ya know the kind of way we behave when we're hospitable right. OSD went out to her fun evening having left a nasty note accusing me of deliberately dropping her makeup bag when I was tidying the room they slept in no less. The note was laid open in a place where my then 7YO son her half-brother might pick it up and read it. The note went on to say I was messing with HER space and not getting out of HER way enough and didn't I realise I was a bitch etc etc.
Like you, I was so happy to find that (although horrified that my BS might have read it). I got her bags ready, and when DH came back having dropped them off at their gig, put the bags in the car and told him that when he would be collecting them later then he would be not bringing her into the home but taking her straight off to his parents' home to spend the rest of the visit NOT in mine. I said th other two were welcome to stay but of course he took the lot of them in a sulk. Fine. It was the absolutely perfect excuse to disengage from that OSD and get her nastiness out of my territory into the bargain, with full justification, and I snatched it with both hands. I saw her again at a couple of family functions that couldn't be avoided and she ignored me -- fine, I also ignored her. Then not again for 5 years. The reason I discovered and joined ST 2-3 years ago was when she made a bid to get back into my life.
I still have that note. It's my get out of jail free card for whenever any one of DH, his family or his kids ever do me any harm ever again in life.

Wow, kids can just be so disrespectful. I would not allow such things in my home, Ha go patsy for getting down to business on everything. Kids get so greedy when it comes to their parents but they don't realize that their parents need some happiness in their lives too. A father/mother can get married and still give their child the attention that they deserve. Let my kids come at me with some disrespectful shit, oooh my DH will be getting shit done quick or I'll be throwing an even bigger fit.