My parents got a divorce when I was young, I was nine, my brother was 6. BOTH parents, my Dad and my Mom gave us THE Speech. To this day I think THE Speech is the reason my brother and I had no divorce issues. They both told us "its over, we are never getting back together, we all need to move on". I knew my Dad didn't really mean what he said, but saying it really helped us get over things quicker I feel. We knew it wasn't ever going to be again and that was that. They didn't sugarcoat ANYTHING. They both told us the truth when we asked something, even if the truth was bad.

So DH made BM a schedule in January that goes until the end of July. It basically said that she could have SS every Saturday from 1pm-to Sundays at 6pm (except for the last weekend of each month). BM picks him up for about 3 weeks and then all of a sudden she has to work on Saturday nights. We've been through this before. So DH tells her to make a schedule and she says she'll just take SS on Fridays at 5:30pm to Saturdays at 5:30pm. OK, no problem.

For a second job my DH works at a motorcycle shop. For those that don't know from past blogs...BM is a stripper. So DH brings up some biker concert thats going on and asks if I want to go, I ask for the info and he says to go on the website for the motorcycle shop. I go to the website and the first thing I see is a flyer for a day that DH works for a car/bike show with car/bike washes by the girls of soandso nightclub. YES, THE CLUB THAT BM STRIPS AT!!! OMG!!! HOW THE HELL DOES THAT HAPPEN???!!! THEY ARE HAVING STRIPPERS DO CAR/BIKE WASHES AT HIS JOB, LMAO!!!

So last week I was so annoyed because SS10 was going to spend Mother's Day with me for the 4th year in a row (I've only known him for 4 years). DH had to work, so it's not like I could even relax.