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Submitted by overworkedmom on Thu, 06/20/2013 - 3:14pm

Going to court in the morning. Incubator wants visitation and we are going after CS for those who don't remember.

DH hasn't done a damn thing to prepare. I am scrambling to get a few things together just so we have something to give the judge.

I have proof of childcare costs
Health insurance bill
DH pay stubs
HER arrest record for the last 12 months.

What else should I print/get a hold of real fast before I leave work???

First time filing for CS for SS

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Wed, 06/19/2013 - 2:24pm

the incubator has never paid a dime in CS. DH and I are raising this kid. She is taking us to court to have her visitation rights restored (she gave up everything 1.5 years ago). So, we counter sued her for CS.

She just got her section 8 apartment. She only works 2 days a week at a freaking pancake house. What are the chances the judge will make her pay anything? DH and I work our asses off, it just sucks...

Another blog on here about 50/50 split got me thinking about the whole "choosing not to work" thing. I wonder if that will stand in our instance.

Do I do the leg work or let DH deal with it?

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Tue, 06/18/2013 - 6:41am

I am so torn! Part of me wants to keep SS as far away from the incubator as I can and rewind time back to when she was a junkie on the streets or holed up in rehab but not allowed outside communication. That was when SS and I had a good relationship. That was when our family was happy. The other part of me says- it's too late. The damage has been done, he won't ever go back now. Let is piece of shit "mother" take him every other weekend. Maybe I can have a little peace in my life.

Feeling very excuded

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Sun, 06/16/2013 - 3:11pm

I really might just flip the hell out if SS says "me and my dad are going to do _____. Overworked you can just go somewhere else" one more time! Can this kid possibly be any more rude. My bios never try to break apart the family and my BS is the exact same age as SS. I just don't get it!!

now i am the bad guy

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Fri, 06/14/2013 - 4:44pm

I told dh how I felt about the scrapbook that incubator was making with as for fathers day, filled with pics of when they were a family. I told him that it was really hurtful to me to even allow it in the house and that it was just her way of trying to show that once upon a time they were such a happy little family p :sick:

Bio's getting lumped in when SS has bad behavior

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Fri, 06/14/2013 - 10:48am

Does anyone else have a spouse/SO that will lump your bios in whenever their child acts like a fool?

DH is famous for this. SS will be his normal little shitty self and DH will get mad and send everyone to their rooms! I just stand there half the time with this face :jawdrop:

BD will be playing with dolls and BS on the kindle and all of the sudden they are grounded. It is the most bazaar thing! It's like if he can't handle his son then they are all bad kids.

Oh, Incubator... I would love to live in your little world

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Mon, 06/10/2013 - 11:39am

So much to say so little time!

1) Incubator got her section 8 housing approved )so she will be moving into an apartment for free)! She promised that SS would have a special place there.

What is a special place exactly? A pallet in the corner of the dining room? LOL I have no idea. But I do know SS can only be with her SUPERVISED at DH'S discretion. Why would she even promise something like that. Now SS thinks she is getting some house where he can visit every weekend.

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