Since BM has magically popped back up and decided she was going to be a part of her son's life again, drama has been flying. For those who don't know or remember BM has been in and out of jail, halfway houses, drugged up and now knocked up. She had not seen or even spoken to FSS6 in the last 6 months until last week. She has also given up all custody (physical, legal and medical.) So here is what happened:

FSS's BM called last week (after silence for almost 6 months) and wanted to see FSS. We agreed to letting him go over to his grandmother's house so they could spend some time together. Turns out they took him to the beach. That would be all well and good if the high wasn't 65, it was raining, he is sick AND they let him go in the freezing water!! He missed 2 days of school last week from this nasty cold that has high fevers with it, and they let him play in the freezing water and rain. Nice BM... Real Nice.

I have seen several post from people that their SO's family has pictures of BM up in the house and that they still have a relationship with BM. It is so hurtful to the new spouse to see all of this. I am at my wits end with a similar situation.

I am just so thrilled. This weekend SO proposed and gave be a GORGEOUS ring! I had no idea it was coming which made it even better. We are still trying to contact family so I can post all the pretty pics and announce it to the world! FSS6 made a big deal about calling me mommmy to EVERYONE in sight yesterday, so I am taking that as him being excited too. My kids come home from their dads tonight so I can't wait to tell them, they love FDH dearly so I know they will be ecstatic.