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Puke visit minus pup

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Last I've heard Puke is coming for her visit this weekend without the pup. Boy, can I call it or what?!

Now, nothing is ever definite with her until DH pulls out of the drive. I say this because BM told DH last night that she was getting Puke some cold medicine. This has turned into Puke not coming in the past. The difference is that the new phone has arrived so I'm sure Puke won't miss out on getting it. Even on her death bed.

Here we go again

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Puke just called DH cuz BM has to work this weekend and can't watch the pup as she works out of her house. DH told Puke that he was not ready for pup to come. She flipped out saying it was BS cuz they were supposed to discuss after Thanksgiving. She then proceeded to hang up on DH.

Evidently Puke suggested early today that she come tonight and stay til Sunday. This is cuz she has been without a phone for two whole days and wants a new phone NOW. Well, sorry toots but your phone won't be here til probably the end of the week. That changed her mind.

Things and stuff

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Puke has been having problems with her cell phone that she got back in April this year. DH is getting her a new one when she comes next weekend. Puke called DH from BM's phone cuz her is completely dead to see if DH would drive 8 hours roundtrip to get her so she could get a new phone now (SERIOUSLY?!). DH did tell her no. I flat out told him that this is the last cell phone WE are buying her. Next one is her or his responsibility. I am done replacing it every year or less and hearing her complain about cell phones not working when she is on it every waking hour.

Rant

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Do SO's and their kids think that when you, a step, and SO commits to each other that you will just assimilate to their life and when you don't you are made to feel like a bad person for disrupting their "happy" life?

I've thought about this off and on for several years and this is how it feels when I bring up something that bothers me. I'm told that "this is how we always" *fill in the blank*. Well, this is how I've always...! Here's the whole we vs me dynamic that makes me feel like an outsider with no rights.

The pup saga continues

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DH texted me that Puke's(sd16) pup chased someone in their neighborhood down the street and the city was called. BM has to get the pup it's shots (this wasn't done?!) and build a new fence. Neither of which she says she can afford so they may have to re-home the pup. (Thinking pup was trying to run away from the cra-cra)

Explain this to me

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DH's birthday was this past weekend. I told him happy birthday, gave him a big ol' hug and told him I loved him first thing that morning. Made sure he did whatever he wanted all weekend, ordered his very favorite food, and even bought him extra birthday gifts.

Puke(sd16) sends him a text saying happy birthday, hope you have an awesome day, and I love you. That's it. She didn't even call him all weekend except for last night in the middle of the night with drama.

Did Puke get the hint?

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Puke's shampoo, conditioner, body wash and razor had all been hid since she couldn't seem to put them back where they belong. Evidently she found them all cuz they were all back in the shower and in the right place even after she took a shower.

Is it finally sinking in? Well maybe until the next time she is here.

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