So I wanted to run this by you guys cause its something small but it rubbed me the wrong way.

So SD had her baby and as much as I can't stand her I put my feelings aside and went with DH to congratulate her. BM was there, and BM has never really been a mother to SD, having my MIL raise her when she was younger, never really liked to do anything for her, etc etc. So we go up there with a good amount of gifts, flowers and all the regular baby stuff. She apparently had nothing, and make this huge production repeatedly asking SD if she wanted anything when she came back.

BM and DH haven't been together in 20 years but it seems BM has always involved herself in DHs families lives. Ive only met her a handful of times and never really dealt with her. So anyhow my MIL was at the hospital and her and I are very close, her, DH, BD, and I were going to the cafeteria and I grabbed my purse and her purse, my MIL went over to walk to some friends of her and I yelled out "MIL i still have your purse" so BM comes running over like "here I'll take that from you, that woman always forgets her things"

I just smiled and handed it to her but Im like yes I know MY MIL very well. She's just annoying, its like she wishes they were still together after 20 years. Its so odd its like my DH had all these exes that still cling on with emotional feelings for him still after years of them being split up. Before me BM would message him and say things like "remember when we used to play house together" 20 YEARS AGO.

Am I being silly or would this annoy you too ? Apparently she's homeless right now and has a boyfriend that she's been with for years don't you have your BFs family to cling to ?