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Submitted by omgsaveme on Sun, 04/13/2014 - 8:35pm

Does anyone else dry up seeing their DH up their SD's ass? We got a surprise visit from SD today as soon as we returned home, my DH barely even got the car into park before he went running out the door over to her and acted as if they were the only two in the world. Meanwhile I got my BD, diaper bag, purse, and everything else myself. Not a huge deal to carry everything myself, just that combined with spineless running over as if she were on fire, total turn off. We just saw her last week, and they text pretty much every day as of late.

Maybe Im overreacting but Im def not in the mood tonight.

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JustAgirl42's picture

Submitted by JustAgirl42 on Mon, 04/14/2014 - 7:58am

I lose my mojo for him when he does this crap. I'll clean the whole house, but SD10 will get over the top praise for picking her clothes up off the floor!

I understand that it's positive reinforcement, but OMG she should have been doing stuff like this for YEARS now. :?

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Submitted by omgsaveme on Sun, 04/13/2014 - 9:43pm

LOL, Im all for showing affection, but today was ridiculous. I see him everyday, so I left them alone for a few so they could chat. It is just so sickening to see him running on air while the car was still rolling to get to her. Blech….

These are the days I miss just being single without relationship bullshit to deal with.

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Submitted by Not the Brady Bunch on Mon, 04/14/2014 - 8:07am

This post is a dejavu. I just read the same thing from someone else about one week ago…and the merry go round goes round!

My OH used to act the same way, but I kept up my "bitch" assault at how suckass his pandering to her is. I wore him down…I figure that is the lesser of the two evils. I would rather he exhibit a normal affection for his daughter and resent me for holding in his inner kiss-ass for her, rather than continuing behaviors such as you posted. Believe me, he told me more than once I made him feel funny about the type of affection he showered on her (so he should). It was unrealistic.

My OH had his SD (moreso than SS) so high up on a pedestal that I had to fetch buckets to collect all the gold she was shitting out of her ass.