I have been married for almost 2 years now. I have two SD 18 and 9, each have different BM. The 18 yr old never calls or comes around unless she wants money, the 9yr old is here at least every other wknd if not every wknd. The BM of the 9yr old also has teen daughter who is friends with my 18 yr old SD. This makes for a very unpleasant situation as BM of 9 yr old speaks negatively about my husband and I in front of not only the 9 yr old but also the 18 yr old when she visits "her friend". The 18 yr old HATES me because of this and I feel only a matter of time until the youngest feels the same with all that is said about us on a daily basis. I have two biologic children as well, both teenagers and I NEVER talk about their father negatively. That being said, both skids are master manipulators, lie if it suits them. The youngest is better at manipulating DH and one never knows if she's lying. I'm to the point of leaving because it's just too much drama and BS. DH thinks if he's home-he works away usually 2 wks at a time-then SD 9 should be here too. This leaves little to no time for he and I. If he's home two wknds n a row he thinks we should have her even though it's BM weekend with her. I'm tired of begging for time with my husband! When I say something, he throws up that my kids are with me all week and he doesn't get to see his perfect little angel (gag) as often. HELP....I NEED HELP