Just like we've done before, because of this past wknd I'm going with the 'seperate wknds' again for a bit. It's worked for us before, I just thought we were out of the woods since the last month or so had gone ok, I was feeling hopefully even!

I was talking last night with him-and believe me I held back everything I wanted to say...I said, you know I didn't even take my kids to amusement park like I wanted to with all this that went on.

He said, I know, I think that's the main thing you're mad about, I said, nope actually, I'm mad about everything that went on here, that was just ONE of the things. He said, well you know then, I know you need to do right by them, I could have taken sd back home and you could have gone...I said, I know, and I will from now on I'm making plans with them and doing my own thing. She gets to do all these things all the time and I don't with mine, so I will be doing my own thing with them.

I even talked to my kids before he came over, and said look, would you like us to do our own thing on wknds w/out bf and fsd? You guys can still see bf during the week but perhaps we need to do our own thing, they were both for it-especially after this past wknd. They're old enough to have some say, I really want to know what they are feeling since they are the ones that mainly have to put up with her crap.

I have a million things I want to say-if I do he may well be gone-I"M not sure any parents wants to hear the things I have to say about their 'kid'. But I will be speaking up more and more as I've started to now...if he can't handle it he can exit the relationship, but I know I will not compromise myself or my sons or home anymore for some other bitch's spawn. I'm at a point that I don't care if he knows I don't like her at all....that I will be polite but I will no longer go out of my way to open my home to her -it honestly is like having BM over to associate with me and my family (bully) EOW-I would never ever chose to be around someone like that, I would never chose for my kids to be around someone like her. So the time will be minimized again.