Its 10pm on a school night and she is no where to be found. Hasn't been home since she got out of school. DH doesn't know why she isn't home yet....And I don't care nor have I mentioned to DH that its OUR bedtime, therefore past hers! Disengagement is wonderful!

This weekend DH is going out of town to visit a longtime friend who is flying into a town 3 hours away from out of country, I told him that was great (I am ok with him being gone for mothers day) BUT he needed to find a sitter for SD17 or she needed to go elsewhere (which is limited since she drinks while spending the night at friends) cause I was not spending my weekend catering to her. DD is staying with my mom since she hasn't in a while and I wasn't going to have it just me and SD all weekend. He didn't fight it (much) and she is going to stay with her grandma. AHHHH the WHOLE HOUSE to me and my dogs. No trying to hide from SD, taking care of SD, feeding her, having to watch TV in the bedroom cause she is on the couch all day, no cleaning after her. Its going to be the BEST mothers day EVER!!! I am spending Saturday afternoon with my mom and DD doing girly stuff for our mothers day(SD HATES girly stuff) then spending the evening ALONE in my quite, lonely house. I CANT WAIT!

Yes, be jealous. Its ok! I understand.