BM lives in another country and sees her daughter when WE pay to fly her over there. This year she cant go cause she is in process of getting her green card and she has to be in the states. So BM is flying herself and her two kids over here for a week. (this is the same BM who hasn't talked to SD since Feb until mothers day when SD contacted her) We had been asking SD and BM when she is coming over cause we are planning a family (vomit) vacation at the start of June. SD only said the week of her bday which is at the END of June. We never got a reply so we booked our trip. Just found out today, BM comes in the day before we get back in town. Oops! She is coming in the week before her bday unlike we were told. We asked, they never told us specific dates. We cant come back a day early either, its just not possible to drive that many hours in a day nor do we get a refund on our rooms we booked. So BM will be in town without SD for her first day here. They never told us the dates (we saw them on SD phone) so I suppose they will find out sooner or later that the dates overlap.

In addition, BM thinks SD is going to drive her around all week in her car, so BM doesn't have to pay for a rental. Well BM smokes and will have two young kids with her and the car is new (not brand new, it was mine brand new then she got it 3 years later) and VERY well taken care of. PLUS in this state she cant drive with more than one person in the car until she is 18 which is 2 days before BM leaves. So we have to tell her, tough luck you have to get a rental. DH told her today that she might want to get one cause BM cant drive SDs car due to her not being insured (trying to be nice about it) and BM said "I shuttled her around while she was young so she owes me and can drive me around for a week" Well BM... she hasn't even had her car a year and you want her drive you around everywhere for a week. Yeah, car is staying PUT in my driveway that week with the keys in my possession.

Any bets on how this is going to go?