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O/T. Do you discuss taking trips with your SO/DH prior to committing???

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Submitted by Newstep on Sun, 10/12/2014 - 10:32am

Like a trip out of the country?? To me that would be something that would require a discussion with SO before I committed to anything. This has caused a huge fight between SO and I.

He came home last night from a dinner that was auctioning off hunting trips. He committed himself to a trip out of the country with out even a thought to discuss it with me.

OMG now I have heard everything!!!

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Submitted by Newstep on Mon, 08/18/2014 - 1:08pm

SO and I have been very much pushing SD to get her college degree after HS. We have always stressed getting good grades and she loses privileges if her grades are bad. BM has been against college since we were for college. She has made big freaking deals about how college is not for everyone SD will be fine without a college education. Gone so far as to tell her that she doesn't have to go if she doesn't want to just to undermine SO. SD failed miserably her first year of HS she was averaging about 1.6 GPA all because she was being lazy.

Ewwwwww BM is seriously effed up!!!!

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Submitted by Newstep on Fri, 08/15/2014 - 10:25am

SO had to take SD by her mom's yesterday to pick something up. I don't even know what it was but now I believe it was a ruse to get him over there so they could tag team him. He gets there and she goes in the house and out comes BM up to his truck because she wants to talk to him. He was like ok what's up. She starts in about SD's feeling unloved and invisible at our house. He never pays attention to her he never holds her, lets her sit in his lap, fall asleep in his arms :jawdrop: :jawdrop: :jawdrop: . This child is 15 freaking years old and the same size as me!!!

Ugh manipulators are the worst!!!

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Submitted by Newstep on Tue, 06/24/2014 - 9:59am

Most of us are here because we deal with master manipulators who use our SO/DH or skids. It's just exhausting to deal with the after effects of someone who has been used and abused by a manipulator for years!!!

SO never had anything for himself he always put BM and the skids first. Worked his ass off for years BM never worked and he supported them she always wanted more and more. He never made enough money blah blah.

These BM's are CRAZY!!!!!

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Submitted by Newstep on Mon, 06/23/2014 - 9:02am

I know why state the obvious right. }:) }:)

Yesterday SO had a last minute trip planned with his buddies it happened to be on his week with SD. He really wanted to go. So he made his plans I told him to make plans for SD15 because I was not to going to be stuck home all day with her. I'm barely starting to like being around her after all the crap she pulls. She lies makes up stories and I don't trust her. So I will not be responsible for her or take her anywhere or be alone with her. But that's a whole bother blog lol

Father's Day :):):):

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Submitted by Newstep on Mon, 06/16/2014 - 8:34am

We'll we had a fabulous weekend. My DD graduated with her teaching credential so we attended the ceremony we were gone all weekend. Her school is about 4 hours away in a beautiful coastal town. Great time wonderful dinner it was just perfect. Yesterday we got up early because SO had an errand to run in a nearby city to DD's school so we were going to do that then head home. Relax and get ready for the work week ahead SD15 would be coming home today so he would not see her on Father's Day.

Summer break is rapidy approaching!!!

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Submitted by Newstep on Mon, 05/19/2014 - 4:11pm

So what are your plans??? Usually SD stays home all summer long and does nothing!! She half asses her chores and there are no consequences. That is if she is even given any chores. So she enjoys lounging around all summer long in the A/C watching TV and doing whatever she wants. This past school year was her first year of HS which she has failed and on top off that gotten in trouble for being disrespectful to teachers. She has had a terrible attitude with punishment and seems to think we owe her everything. So this summer she is in for a rude awakening }:) }:)

Report card time..........................

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Submitted by Newstep on Tue, 03/25/2014 - 6:12pm

Anyone get report cards yet???? Oh glory be we got SD15's yesterday. She is pulling an amazing 1.6 GPA :jawdrop: This is on the tails of her whining to BM that we make her study to much and her coursework is waaaaayyyy to hard!!!! She is a real winner when she signed up for classes I tried to talk her out of taking Spanish because I knew it would be really hard on her. The little smart ass looks at me like I am an idiot and assured me she was more than capable of handling it complete with eyeroll.

Merry Christmas!!!!

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Submitted by Newstep on Wed, 12/25/2013 - 11:38am

Merry Christmas to everyone!!! Hope everyone is having a beautiful time Smile

We have been celebrating Christmas since Monday lol. We had my bios on Monday because they are all going to Europe with their dad for Christmas. They are all adults and I am excited for them but kinda sad today is the first Christmas I haven't spent with them ever!!! But we had a fantastic time on Monday :).

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