The beginning of the vacation summer season, oh joy!!
I know that a lot of you are joyous (insert sarcasm) over the beginning to the summer season. I used to think that summer was so enjoyable and that little mini vacay's to different places were awesome.
Then it happened.
The sd15.
I should be happy because I've been starved of her company for months. I have probably seen her 3-4 times since last summer. I'm cool with that. Birthday, xmas, and those sort of things.
Last get together I stayed home.
While I think about all of you out there that are on the brink of having your stepkids for the summer, I feel for you, I seriously do! It's thinking about you all that helps me to know that I can make it through one small 4 day weekend stuck wiht my dh's family and his bratty sd15.
I keep hoping and hoping she just won't be able to come. Or won't want to come. I'm not ready to deal with her and her spoiled rotten ass.
But bm seems to have gotten in good with dh's sister so there is a significant amount of ass kissing going on there to beg sd15 to join us on this 4 day weekend that supposed to be a relaxing time away from home to start the summer.
Nope, I know what it'll be. Sd15 will show up with either a giant bag of useless crap or a small bag with the basics. Then I'll have ot supply beach towels to her. She never brings her own. EVER! Maybe that's picky of me.... but she's no novice at going to the vacation venue. The family has been going there since my dh was young.
Sd15 will bring useless crap that is not appropriate for the rustic terrain that we are staying in. She'll bring coach or some such silly shoes to walk around in. She'll bring the SHORTEST shorts you've ever seen and we'll have to watch her constantly pulling them out of her craw all weekend. She's a string bean with a stuffed bra. She'll also show up with the smallest swimsuit ever. And she'll stuff the top. My dh will get annoyed that she's so underdressed but when I ask if she brought a cover up.... bc this kid has all the clothes in the world, she's spoiled.... she'll say oh i didn't bring it. So then she'll have to sashay her almost naked ass in front of us all day.
She'll throw a fit when we pay games bc they aren't the games SHE wants to play. She is a bit immature and will want to play kiddie games with the adults. There is a small group of kids younger than her. She can play kiddie games with them.
She'll stomp off and go to bed early bc her DADDY is soooooo mean to her!!
Then the next day and night she'll be hanging all over DADDY all day. Even into the evening, pretending to be the mini-wife.
DAddy will be so desperate for her approval he'll ignore me and treat sd15 as if she's the only other person there.
I could go on and on but I know this is boring and I just really wish that one time I could be wrong. Flat out wrong.
Oh but her birthday is coming up in 3 months.... so she's gonna suck up as much as possible.
She'll throw a fit about what food we have to eat. A big fit. She always does. She's starving but she won't eat what is cooked for the meal. She's always got to have something special or something different. Can't just go with the flow. EVER!!!
I do pray and hope that she doesn't show up on her period. Every single time she's on her rag, I have to go buy her feminine products. She NEVER brings any. Even though she is on her rag when she arrives. She always begs us to get her tampons. I'm praying this is not the case. I don't want to deal with her at all.
I intend to talk to her as little as possible and not interact with her at all.
8 days to the countdown!! I got this!!
I'm hoping that I don't have to see her again until her bday in 3 months. Then I'm home free til xmas. LOL!!
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Can I say I'm jealous? We
Can I say I'm jealous? We will have Skids 6 weeks this summer, every other week for three months, after this past year and Skids behaving like wild animals at our house ( like I posted in past blogs) I'm dreading but dreading having to deal with them, every weekend is already bad enough, the behavior is so out of control I'm already sick to my stomach just thinking about their voices, I just want them to go away, I keep hoping they won't want to come, they so PASed that maybe I will be lucky but I doubt it.
We will have SS10...every
We will have SS10...every time that kid comes to our house I can feel the winds change directions like we will get blown to OZ! Its CRAZY! He doesn't have rules etc at BM's house. So its like well I don't have to listen here either! It drives me crazy! Especially since BD3 and BS5 are so impressionable! On our EOWD that we have SS it takes me til at least the Thursday after he leaves to get them back normal. Then by the following Friday ITS BACK!!
you all crack me up!! those
you all crack me up!! those were some great ideas!! I might just do the beach towel and cover up thing. It's just amazes me that right before the weekend mini vacay that my DH is already giddy with excitement to see his little princess.
OMG guess what?? he called her AND she answered the phone and talked with him!! How sweet is she???
I was like of course she did it's the week before vacation and her bday is in 2 months. How freaking gullible can a man be??
I know she's his kid and all but you can't tell me that he feels all this fatherly love and affection for a kid that he almost never sees or talks to and one that treats him like shit?
I just don't understand.