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This has become a pattern. I'm not sure how to stop it for good. If I can at all.
Obviously my approach isn't working.
I'll try to make this somewhat short.
If possible!
My DH has a bday at the end of this month. SD15 has a bday a few days after. His bday has ALWAYS taken back seat. Which I totally understand that for a kid they get the attention but I mean he was told early on by bm that he needed to focus on sd not himself.
Random gift from sd to DH, or was it??
I sent DH off to visit with family this weekend and told him to try to at least get his daughter to hand out. Well, since it's a few weeks before her bday, guess what????
Princess could come and see her dadddddddddddyyyyyyy!!! AS long as she doens't have to come to his home I guess she's fine.
So she get's dropped off, they have a wonderful time hanging out with his bro & sil and kids along with sis and bro in law all weekend.
I'm cool with that. I'm glad that he get's to see his family and his kid. That's good.
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meddling people, I wish they would just stop!!
Really no word from sd15 lately, after all the vacays, she found she was super busy!
Which is fine with me. The 2 weekends that she was invited to come she refused both times.
1st time, my grandson's bday party-- she refused because it's not really her family, she doesn't really know those ppl, they make her feel uncomfortable, it would be boring for her.
2nd time, just a random weekend-- she refused with no explanation. apparently she went to see a famous country artist. bc like she's just a huge fan ya'll!! lol whatever.
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The beginning of the vacation summer season, oh joy!!
I know that a lot of you are joyous (insert sarcasm) over the beginning to the summer season. I used to think that summer was so enjoyable and that little mini vacay's to different places were awesome.
Then it happened.
The sd15.
I should be happy because I've been starved of her company for months. I have probably seen her 3-4 times since last summer. I'm cool with that. Birthday, xmas, and those sort of things.
Last get together I stayed home.
And so it goes.. another holiday approaching!
My DH hasn't seen his bratty sd15 since xmas. When she promised him over and over and over she was going to call him during the 2 weeks she was out of school. Did she call, did she text.. nope. Not once.
In the time between then and now, he's been texting with her and he responses are really hit or miss. She might or might not text back.
He's doing exactly what he said he wouldn't and planning on going to see her this weekend while staying with his bro & sil so that he doesn't have to drive so far back and forth. Because the princess wants it this way.
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I'm pretty sure I posted the same blog this time last year. And maybe the year before that, too.
Every year, every other weekend it's almost always the same thing.
DH has forgotten all the hateful ugly words that his sweet princess sd15 said to him before thanksgiving. Now it's xmas!!!
It's time pretend that your kid loves you and doesn't use you.
Latest development is that after the big blowup with sd, dh said he didn't apologize for anything. He said. I'm sure that if I read his texts that I'd find him kissing up to baby girl and telling her sorry he was about upsetting her so much.
Grasping for anything to use as a weapon, sd is pathetic.
Last night, dh decided to NOT text wth sd15 but actually called her and had a verbal convo.
The list of reasons that sd doesn't or can't or won't come to visit at our house included the following:
Jawdropping texts from sd. Good for a laugh or a cry!!
To follow up on the crazy texts that my dh get's from sd15, I posted before how she texted about how she's been having mental breakdowns for years and he doesn't know how she cries over him. As well as she needs a break from him. And that he only visits when it's convenient for him. Like it's ever convenient to drive 2.5 hours one way to pick up a bratty kid. yeah right!!
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Oh the holidays!! FUN, FUN!!
I know that I don't deal with half of what some of you do during the holidays but I find myself getting really frustrated with the situation at times.
Here we are again and sweet princess, sd15 won't communicate with her dh but she'll text him about random crap that has no bearing on their relationship at all. Just bragging.
He thinks that means she's really interested in talking to him. When it's obvious she's just rubbing crap in his face. But he'll respond with all glitter and rainbows. Gush, gush!!
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sd15 making up lies and refusing to communicate. GREAT!! Advice needed please!
DH has been trying to communicate with sd15 for about a month, since her bday. Everything was perfectly fine when we dropped her off. Since then she's busy. Not just buuuuuuusy, but sooooooo busy with homework. All the time. So much that she can read his texts but not respond to them. She can't answer the phone either, she's so busy!!