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O/T Update on friend OR continuation of separated=cheating debate

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I posted a little while back about how concerned I was about my friends new girlfriend and I regret to report that I had reason to be. He came back yesterday after 4 months of being out of town. I went over to welcome him home and he told me about how girlfriends divorce wasn't finalized. He had previously told me she had never been married, well apparently that is what she led him to believe.

And when it came up she asked him what would he have done had he known she was separated. He honestly told her that he wouldn't have dated her.

As it turns out, when girlfriends hubby found out she was seeing someone, he started to come back around and now they are back together. I feel so bad for my friend and wished I had said something to warn him, but I'm sure it wouldn't have helped. He doesnt seem to broke up about it, but still, I wish he could catch a break in life.

Also, I had mentioned how I worried that she would convince him to move down with her and that I didn't want him to go. He's going to be leaving anyway as his parents are ill. Sad