I'm sitting here in the hospital with DH who just had surgery for his liver cancer. It went well, but he's not out of the woods yet. We won't know for a few days if he's going to go into liver failure. He's also in pain, so naturally I'm stressed.

To make matters worse, he gets a texts from BM#2 who we haven't heard from in a year and a half. She came to live with us for a few months 2.5 years ago and it was a disaster (imagine that!). Then she up and left. She ran into money problems and threatened to take DH for CS. DH told her if she did that, he'd go for custody, which scared her enough to back off and not contact us again (before anybody starts in on DH for not paying CS, every dime would go to her drug habit so fuck that) until today.

The text said something about sorry to hear about your grandpa. He died a few weeks ago. The only way she could have found out was doing a google search of his name, which pulls up the obituary. I'm so scared now that she's got him back on her radar. What could she possibly want now? She's a total clusterfuck of drama that I just don't have the patience to deal with right now. If she has the audacity to defile my doorstep with her presence, the only response I would have for her is a .38 special to the face