So Today was the first day that lil dude could not come into our bedroom untill the clock said 8 00. Well He knocked on the door at 7, BF woke up for a sec, just to re iterate that it was not 8 yet and to watch TV or a movie, at 730, I wokke up and went in to snuggle with lil dude. It was sooo much better waking up like this. And I was very impressed with how bf handled it. Also, BF explained to the lil dude, to use his fisher price basketball hoop to throw his laundry in, wow!!! Things may not be so bad after all. I guess I just need to bring up these topics in a non chalant way, rather than how I was approaching it.

I mean, BF is trying. He even went out and got the book men are from mars women are from Venus.

Anyway, It was really nice to know that he really does listen, and we all have to compromise.

Saturday started off good, lets see how we all are in a few hours, seeing we are in a small space and we are snowed in!!!!! There may be a long, undisturbed hot bath in my future, to escape.

Thank you all for the great advice, I love this site and wish my BF could find one to help him. I couldnt imagine what he feels. Splitting his time between work, his special time, our time and lil dudes time. I encouraged him to look one up, This site is helping me, I want him to get the same out of it. Anyone know of any sites for him?