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I have no kids, and he has one,

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Submitted by miskittius on Thu, 03/11/2010 - 11:21am

I have no kids and he has one % year old son, we both would like to have a child together. Can anyone offer advice or cooment. Does it change things. Will he love our child as his first? Will I be able to not play favorites ( Mentally, I would never show it ) is it harder on the relationship is it easier? How does the older child react? So many concerns.

There needs to be a Super nanny for blended families. Does anyone agree?

All yours

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A Great Start to an early moring,

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Submitted by miskittius on Sat, 02/06/2010 - 8:44am

So Today was the first day that lil dude could not come into our bedroom untill the clock said 8 00. Well He knocked on the door at 7, BF woke up for a sec, just to re iterate that it was not 8 yet and to watch TV or a movie, at 730, I wokke up and went in to snuggle with lil dude. It was sooo much better waking up like this. And I was very impressed with how bf handled it. Also, BF explained to the lil dude, to use his fisher price basketball hoop to throw his laundry in, wow!!! Things may not be so bad after all.

He feels like I am attacking him as a father, I feel like he is not doing what he should as a dad

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Submitted by miskittius on Thu, 02/04/2010 - 9:56am

So Bf and I are still planning on moving in together. after our long talk he really understood where I was coming from RE the Morning wake up routine. He feels it is necessary that we have OUR special time in the bedroom, That he never did that when he was a kid, and really doesnt know many that allow that behavior.

Mon thru Thurs

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Submitted by miskittius on Tue, 02/02/2010 - 5:45pm

All I have to say is, I am so glad its during the week. Unfortunatley because lil dude wakes me up sooo early, I havent been able to sleep in. And last night I woke up with next to nothing on and totally though lil dude was home and I freaked out saying to BF, OMG, I need to put more clothes on, he was like, Babe, why? i was so out of it I really thought it was the weekend. WOW!!! scared the H E double hockey sticks out of me.

wow, our talk about SS5 almost went really bad!

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Submitted by miskittius on Tue, 02/02/2010 - 9:26am

so I talked to BOO ( bf) about lil dude and my special bed time. I first strted by apoligiizing for being a little harsh, but then went into detail about how his approach isn't working. I tell you the whole time I was talking boo was so on the defense. You see I may not HAVE kids of my own but I was a nanny for years and basically raised my lil sis, I am also a huge fan of the nanny. So I kinda broke it to him that he needs to put the foot diwn and stop parenting throug the back of his head while on the computer.

A full bed, too early in the morning

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Submitted by miskittius on Mon, 02/01/2010 - 9:36am

So, when my BF and I started to have me sleep over when his son was around, he had programmed lil 5 year old Aidan that when he wakes up to turn the TV On, and let us sleep. Well, now that I am going to be moving in, and for the past few weeks, Aidan hads been waking us up at 630 in the am to sleep in our bed. I come from a split Family and this was something that was shunned upon by both my step mom and dad. I feel very uncomfortable with this, firstly I work in the restaurant industry and get home late, I cannot be waking up at 630, listening to lil guy try and strike up a conversation.