I dont have a child of my own. My bf does.
Yesterday was some commercial about babyformula on tv. He started conversation about how he has seen some program on tv and how those babyformulas are almost like breastmilk. He then proceeded to say how his son was using -such and such- brand. How he liked -such and such- baby can food (not sure how they are called, you know those you buy with veggies, fruits, meat etc).
He knows i want a child of my own.

Why would it bother me what they were doing to their child? Why would it bother me what their child liked?

I told him my child will be my first, and i will decide what i want for my child. He said - It will not be my first -
He said -well, since i already have experience, why not use it?-

WTF?

I said - maybe I dont want to raise my child like she did hers -

He said - my son is alive and healthy, so we did nothing wrong - Then he said well his son was quite eraly off baby food. Yea go figure. He will gorge down whatever comes to his hands.

At this point i wanted to say many things, but since i tried to avoid major argument i stayed quiet. I didnt want to say that his child is overweight and has emotional problems.

I didnt want to say that the way they raised their kid, i in no way want to raise mine.

I think he sees nothing bad in telling me stories about how they raised their kid, and that it should only benefit me that i have someone experienced to help me when the time comes.

I dont give a flying fuck what they did. I in no way care what they did, and i dont want to hear about it. How hard is to understand that? I dont want him to breathe down my neck and if i want to do something my way, him interrupting me saying it oh, do it this way, thats how i did it, i know it works. I dont want this!!!

Why am I so upset?

Is anyone else been bothered by this?!