We had a long talk with my fiance's parents. I am so exhausted, tired, angry and fed up with them. They sat and blamed me to me face for every problem that has occurred between them and my fiance since his divorce. Their whole defense as to why they go to his ex is that they can't trust me. That I keep the kids from them and convince him to.

I sent ss back to his mom's today with a ziploc bag containing a dirty sock,a pair of dirty underwear and a note that says they don't belong to him. I told SS that we don't do other people's laundry at our house. He informed me that BM's BF "got them mixed up" I told him that if he knows it is not his, not to wear it. (He knew the stuff wasn't his)

It totally slipped out. She has started suggesting things for the kids to watch on tv while they are here on our weekends. She has done this several times already, knowing that we don't watch tv very often. Even when the kids aren't here we aren't big into tv shows. We love our DVR!!!

Things with them are just going down the toilet. He has asked them to stop asking the ex for time. They keep going around telling everyone that will listen that he never lets them see the kids. It is a flat out lie - they NEVER ASK HIM. They have lied to him about asking the EX and now he is finding out about it. Somehow they think it has something to do with me. He has tried over and over to explain that he only gets half the time he used to and it just isn't possible to let them see the kids as much as they used to.