I am bracing for the feces to contact the oscillator
I sent ss back to his mom's today with a ziploc bag containing a dirty sock,a pair of dirty underwear and a note that says they don't belong to him. I told SS that we don't do other people's laundry at our house. He informed me that BM's BF "got them mixed up" I told him that if he knows it is not his, not to wear it. (He knew the stuff wasn't his)
I've been feeling very sassy and put upon lately and that was the last straw. I had a meltdown and got in an argument about the kids doing nothing for themselves; blew my top about the 8 yr old acting 4 and getting away with it. I absolutely draw the line at SS coming here in someone else's clothes.
I WILL NOT wash clothes that belong to her BF's kids.
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And you shouldn't!
Let the shit hit the fan, they should be extremely embarrassed for getting adult clothing mixed up with a childs' and allowing his undergarments to make it to your place!
What was she smoking?
Candice
no,no,no
no,no,no
it wasn't adult clothing - it was another kid that lives in her house's clothing. But still - I am sure that those kids' mom wouldn't like knowing that her ex was allowing another kid to wear it, just as my Fiance doesn't buy clothes for someone else's kid to wear.
plus- EWWWWWWWWWWWWWW someone else's underwear. yuck.
it was bm's bf that has been the only one doing laundry. she doesn't do laundry - pre divorce I have been told that she let laundry pile up for MONTHS at a time and would buy clothes. Nobody is THAT busy From the way the kids come dressed, she is still doing this. New clothes almost every week.
well that's better!
OMG!!! LOL I thought you meant bf's underwear was in the bag!!! How silly of me! It's a lot better that it was another childs' belongings, but it still is gross. I know some women that are like that too, just let the laundry pile up....my dh usually beats me to the laundry, but I always get to do the folding. I can't stand being so disorganized!
And I agree, I wouldn't want my son's clothing being worn by another child, or to pay for other kids' to have clothing. that isn't my job.
Thanks for clarifying!
Candice
LMAO!!
Oh, your title on this had cracked me up... what chuckle!
Yeah, we had that here too... except it was SS wearing his mother's socks, and one time, he actually wore a pair of her pants!!!! I just about gagged when I figured why the pants weren't fitting him right, and well... preceded to embarrass him. (I didn't do that on purpose, but I just couldn't help it... it was soo funny and gross all at the same time.) He has on occasion, also worn a pair of his SB's underwear too, and it is quite disturbing to me. But, not much I can do about that, I just wash it and he returns them. Not worth the fight...
DH has said something to SS about it, and told him how gross that is, not to do it please, and if he has to run over some clothes, he will.
Man has the intelligence to change his life,
Sometimes, he just fails to use it...