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BM's BF (boyfriend) removed from home by CPS

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Submitted by MamaBecky on Thu, 05/19/2011 - 7:00am

So SD14 showed up on Tuesday informing DH that while she was at our house last week CPS went to her BM's house and forced BM's bf (boyfriend) to move out.

First of all wouldnt they only do this is there was clear and present evidence that he was somehow harming the kids? (SD & her two sibs w/BM)

On what grounds would they be able to force this?

I have done the sex offender registry search and the criminal database search for my state.

Trouble in BM's paradise...

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Submitted by MamaBecky on Sat, 05/14/2011 - 10:13pm

So some of you may know that SD5's BM & I are friendly. Anyway last week BM told me that she feels like her DH is unhappy. She doesn't know why but she has a familiar feeling of how she has felt before in prior relationships when she was cheated on. She also suspects that their might be something between her DH and her sister. Yes, her SISTER! She said he is always angry, in a permanent bad mood, and is going out all of the time for "space" which he has never needed before. They have only been married for two years....but got married quickly when she was prego with twins.

O/T I have a new niece

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Submitted by MamaBecky on Fri, 04/29/2011 - 1:43pm

My little sister had a baby this morning at 10:50am ET. She was 8lbs. 90z and 21 inches long. She has brown eyes and curly long brown hair. She is already a thumb sucker at 4 hours old. LOL

I am stuck at work until 3:15 after which I will be leaving for the 2 hour drive to get to my sister and new niece. I just had to tell someone! Smile

I am so excited.

I think my DH missed a good oppurtunity...

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Submitted by MamaBecky on Thu, 04/14/2011 - 4:42pm

SD13 turns into SD14 the Friday before Easter. This also happens to be our weekend and our year to have her for Easter. So, we decided that we would get SS13.9 the cell phone she has been "dying" for as well as allow her to have 3 friends come over for Friday/Sat...to return on Sat evenings to their families so that they could also enjoy their family easter. This has been established and has been in the planning stages for 3 months.

DH got new job and Fri pickups will be affected

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Submitted by MamaBecky on Fri, 02/18/2011 - 7:13pm

So after a 3.5 year struggle my DH started a new job this week. (yay!) The downside, is that it is second shift. (2:45pm - 11pm) Friday pickup is at 6:15 for SD5 and 7pm for SD13 then I will have them by myself until we pick up their dad at 11pm. I know SD5 will be fine but I'm a bit nervous how SD13 will react to this "quality time" with her SM. Any positive suggestions or encouragement are welcome. Now that she is a teen our relationship is pretty much peaceful coexistence, we dont talk much, and I just dont know what she will be like with her dad not their looming over her.

SD5 says she just CAAAAAAANT do it

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Submitted by MamaBecky on Mon, 02/07/2011 - 9:20pm

So she went to school today (kindergarten) and got an orange card. (not good) for snatching a paper rudely from her teacher and refusing to participate when it was time to write in her journal. We met them (SD, BM & SF) for dinner. SD was VERY well behaved tonight, ate well, and only had to have a reminder or two regarding table manners. (cover mouth when cough, dont talk with mouth full) She did very well.

Bratty Little SD5

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Submitted by MamaBecky on Mon, 01/31/2011 - 1:00pm

My SD5 has to work on some of her brat issues. This weekend it was ignoring me when I was giving her direction and then once being corrected to covers her ears and closes her eyes. Lovely. When asked why she makes these bad choices she says "my brain tells me to". LOL At the changeover I told BM what behavior correction we were working on and she said she would continue to address it and speak to her H the SF about doing so as well as he provides SD5's daycare. Oh boy. How useless. I'm sorry he is a nice guy but SF is clueless.

BM stuck (really!!) in the basement. pathetically funny

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Submitted by MamaBecky on Mon, 01/17/2011 - 4:03pm

I celebrated my bday last week and over the weekend we took SD's 5 & 13 to a hotel so we could all enjoy the pool, hottub, spa. I invited my BFF, my DH's BFF, SD5's BM, and SD13's BM and all of the applicable family memebers that come with all of the above. Only my BFF and his family, and SD5's BM & family came and it was perfect. We had a great time. We learned some fun facts regarding why SD13's Bm could not make it...

I really think my DH hates being a dad

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Submitted by MamaBecky on Thu, 12/23/2010 - 11:22pm

Seriously...he is so crabby when his kids are here. He is usually manageable when its the weekends but when they are here in excess of that...which has been this whole entire week he has been such a pain in the ass. I realize that neither of these children were planned and and that he never wanted kids...but damn...there here....they exist....step up man! I did not marry my DH for his sensitivity that is for sure. He is so self absorbed, he is #1 in his world, he loves his kids the best he is capable and I know he wants to be a good dad.

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