So some of you may know that SD5's BM & I are friendly. Anyway last week BM told me that she feels like her DH is unhappy. She doesn't know why but she has a familiar feeling of how she has felt before in prior relationships when she was cheated on. She also suspects that their might be something between her DH and her sister. Yes, her SISTER! She said he is always angry, in a permanent bad mood, and is going out all of the time for "space" which he has never needed before. They have only been married for two years....but got married quickly when she was prego with twins. One of her twins has hydrocephalus (water on the brain). Needless to say there is a lot of stress and pressure in their life. I tried to tell her maybe life has just overwhelmed him and that is why he is behaving the way he is...but really I dont know.

SD5 has been extra excited when we show up to get her the last few times and she has been making subtle yet negative comments about her SD...so she is seeing/feeling the strain.

I feel like I am about to watch a train wreck. I just hope that SD5 doesn't end up to much of a casualty.