So BM finally decided to come visit her daughter since she was flying to a different country and NY is her layover. She is then spending the weekend and going back to the country she lives in. So let me get this straight... she can travel across the world but can't plan a vacation to spend with her child. The last time she visited was during the Summer of last year and there was a motive - to get married in civil court w/ her husband from another country.

DH agreed on parenting time again this weekend even after she has interrogated her and poisoned her with gossip and lies for the couple hours she got to spend with her during ghe beginning of the week. However DH isn't allowing SD to sleep over with BM. 

SD asked me if i could take her to the library this weekend to return books and pick up new ones for a school project.  I said sure not knowing DH had already planned on SD going with her mom. I simply told SD after coming home from BM tonight that she should go to the library and bring her books with her tomorrow and get the ones she needs since there is a library by BMs parents house (where she is currently staying for the weekend). SD tells me she asked her mom and the response was "no i cant, if you were sleeping over then yes." That is something BM would say and SD has a rep of lying so idk what to believe. BM has never taken her to the library and many places that I've taken her since we got custody of her. But seriously?! Bm how low can you get?! going to the library with your child is quality time and the least she can do is be involved in SD school project while she is here. 

Once again the b.s. never ends. After every visit there is some frustrating crap to hear.