So BM finally decided to come visit her daughter since she was flying to a different country and NY is her layover. She is then spending the weekend and going back to the country she lives in. So let me get this straight... she can travel across the world but can't plan a vacation to spend with her child. The last time she visited was during the Summer of last year and there was a motive - to get married in civil court w/ her husband from another country.