All About the SKid's-
I tried posting a blog earlier for today but it never posted.....
Another evening last night and day today my DH has been talking about his kids...Now in the light of not sounding like a mean person, I have heard so much Bullsh*t about my 3 skid's over the last years and my head is about to pop off my shoulders.
I know he misses his girls, I get that. But here we go again around the mulberry bush with these kids. Its been a week now and his kids, well 2 of the 3 are not speaking to him again. He talks with his oldest by text and phone. Of course the only reason she does do this is becuase she knows daddy, my poor husband will drive over to her at her BM is drop her off some gifts.
I dont know about anyone else, but I know if it was me, and my BS treated me the way these 3 girls treat him I would NEVER try and buy him gifts and try and buy their love. Again, I am an easy going woman, and very much a "giver" but it also must be desearved.
These 3 kids have tormented him over the years, playing games with him, and talking nasty about him to everyone, and even posting it on their social media pages along with the BM. But as soon as they need anything(because BM doesn't do shit for them) they play nicey-nice, and call daddy and he rins over there. Yet when he asks to see them for fathers day they dont answer his calls. But you know sure as shit if he has something to give them or offers them money they let him come by or they ask to come here with us.
I am just so tired of them doing this to my DH. I wish he would grow a spine! And frankly I am tired of them treating me and my son so poorly. My son adores them, and they are down right nasty to him. SO nasty that I tell my BS not to bother with them and go and play with his friends.
Its just so unfair.
Im sorry I am ranting. I am just so frustrated, on so many levels with these skid's. I heard all about them again today , and how sad my Hubby is. I feel horrible for him. But I need to disconnect and disengage from his skids, weather they are here at our house or not. They are nasty little snots, and so dam manipulative. And after what I heard them say about me and my DH today (came from the oldest skid through text to my DH) I am just threw. Shame on these kids, and their BM.
Thank you for letting me rant away 
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I agree, He should not be
I agree, He should not be giving them anything what so ever. There is no Rhyme or reason as to why they don't speak to him. This has happened a handful of times before. It seems form the beginning of all this years ago; The BM is bad mouthing the Father (my Husband). From the day she filed the divorce she had made him out to be the bad guy, and I have to say, she was the one who had found another Love of her life, so she says, and she filed for divorce years ago.
So while divorce and separation were going along, BM was telling the children that their father was all these bad things, ect. The children, being all girls (I guess) just stuck to glue like their BM. But until she started displaying a deep drinking habit, and not being home and around for the kids, the kids sided with the BM. He finally got to see his kids 6 months later, but so much damage had been done to their relationship and I guess my DH just tried to keep them in contact with him. Hence, the reason why he started showering them with gifts, and taking them all over the place. Running around like an ass, every time they called or whimpered. Then the cycle happened all over again. They stopped talking to him again. They told him that they hated him, they hoped he would die, and so on, and that he abandoned their mom...Again, makes no sense, this ding bat of an ex filed for the divorce and was engaged to another man. It’s just continued this way. It has been a hell of a ride. The skids are getting worse by the day. The stories we hear from the oldest are disgusting, and the BM is out of control, totally bat shit crazy! I feel sorry for him. I try to tell him that buying gifts for these ingrates are just enabling them to treat us like shit. It’s such a long history of torment to my DH, to me and to my son. I am through, and I have to throw up my hands at this point.
I have gone above and beyond to treat these skids as my own, and blend them into the family. The do nothing but pee in beds, slam doors in my face, I saw the middle child spit in my sons Gatorade bottle in the fried. It’s just the tip of the ice berg. I have had it.
They have no reason to be this way. But I guess when you have a bad BM telling them nasty things (as she is downright nasty herself) this is what is to be expected. Well, this is not going to continue in my house....