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I cant thank you ALL for your support in the past! Just a quick update! Thank you all again,,,its been a hard few months

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Submitted by lostbroken on Tue, 09/30/2014 - 6:56pm

I know it has been since about July when I last posted. I can’t thank you all enough for ALL your support through my turbulent time. I wanted to vent and update what was going on in my situation and of course always look for everyone’s "wonderful advice"
Well, I did leave DH that day and I left for weeks! I went through the constant text messages, phone calls, and calls from his friends, and family. What a waste of my time.
I have to say that I truly tried in this marriage. We are now legally separated and heading for a full divorce.

DH has not cleaned up mess his Dear Kids have made?? I am out of freaking Spoons and more!!!

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Submitted by lostbroken on Mon, 07/14/2014 - 7:04pm

So I am at another cross road. DH has gone off to work, and I go into the kitchen to obtain a utensil and I am ALL out! My DH still has not cleaned the mess that was left from last night. Now last night we had a fight, he shut the door on me, and hung out with the kids, and sent me this "poor me email" today, and still left the mess that his girls made. I mean not even a crumb was swept from the floor either. I have nearly half my cups, bowls and plates in the sink, and now officially ALL my utensils are in there too.

A little confused with DH and his email just now?????

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Submitted by lostbroken on Mon, 07/14/2014 - 12:59pm

My DH, who has not spoken to me since last night, after shutting the door on my face and spending "quality time" with his 2 kids has emailed while I am at work, asking me Why, am I being distant , and why am I not looking at him with love anymore????
WTF is this about? He slammed the door on my face and got mad at me for not cleaning or cooking for his 2 kids that are NOT even supposed to be here at our house until therapy had taken place (for his kids), and when they learned to respect me, and my DH.

Holy SHit Did I ever call it? I knew I was right

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Submitted by lostbroken on Fri, 07/11/2014 - 7:38pm

My asshole DH has just dropped a bomb on me that he is picking his kids up this evening. Ummm, we just had a discussion about this, and we agreed that they were not to come here. I knew it! I even posted a blog today saying I knew they were going to be coming.I felt it. He is a hypocrite. His damn daughters stole 2 of my rings last the week before from our bedroom, and he has the balls to have them back here after we had a huge blow out. I have been such a push over these past years , and i dont feel this is fair. My Husband will be working all weekend.

Its coming down the Pipe I feel he is going to say skids are coming over for weekend

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Submitted by lostbroken on Fri, 07/11/2014 - 9:19am

So my DH arrives home from work last night(later than usual, these is more than once this week)
He sits down in his usual position and starts Yapping about his nasty kids. I normally walk away , but this time I was in the middle of doing something in the room and wanted to finish up and head to bed(laundry, YUck, LOL )
So as he tells me about his kids, of course the 2 younger ones are still NOT talking to him, but oldest is. And guess why, because she needs money! What a BIG surprise. Just as I always said to him. They are nice when they need something.

All About the SKid's-

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Submitted by lostbroken on Tue, 07/08/2014 - 7:35pm

I tried posting a blog earlier for today but it never posted.....
Another evening last night and day today my DH has been talking about his kids...Now in the light of not sounding like a mean person, I have heard so much Bullsh*t about my 3 skid's over the last years and my head is about to pop off my shoulders.

New Here, Need some advice, not sure if i am doing this correctly

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Submitted by lostbroken on Mon, 07/07/2014 - 5:05pm

So please bear with me. I will try and keep this short and simple...I found this site while searching for some answers on how to deal with my husband and his kids. I am at my wits end...In light of not sounding so harsh; I hate my step kids with a passion.
I am a 40 year old Bio mom of a 10 year old boy from a previous marriage. I have been married to my husband now for 5 years. He has 3 Girls, all who live with their bio mom, and would come back and forth for visitation with their dad and I.