Before I get started I need to tell you the status of my step daughters Dad and I so you understand a little bit better. We was married for 5 years and got divorced for one because of the step daughter and then there was another reason involved as well. So he thought he couldnt live without me and we did couciling and we are back together. The only thing we ever fight about is HIS DAUGHTER. Ok so 3 weeks ago before break my step daughter didnt go to school on that Monday. Keep in mind she is 18 and only goes from 8-11 then goes to beauty school from 12:30-4:30, so i went online to check her attendance because she hardly gets to school on time or a lot of times she doesnt even go. She is in a special school for troubled and failing kids, so it is a good program for her but she has so many issues. Well she didnt go to school on that Monday and I told her Dad about it and he asked her and she said she was there. So then on Tuesday and Wednesday the same thing and also instead of A for absent it was U for unexcued and she even lost a grade level. So i told her Dad again he asked her and she said she went. He said well then have your teacher call me tomorrow so I can talk with her and the step daughter said ok no prob cause she was there. Well Thursday came and went with no phone call. So when he got home from work i asked him what her teacher said and he said OH SHE DIDNT CALL, like he forgot. I said Well r u going to call her tomorrow? He said yeah probably better, so he did and the school said NO SHE WAS NOT HERE AND ON MONDAY SIR YOU CALLED IN CAUSE YOU GUYS WERE STRANDED, TUESDAY HER MOTHER CALLED IN CAUSE THERE WAS A FUNERAL, AND ON WEDNESDAY SHE WASNT NOT FEELING WELL AND HER MOM CALLED IN FOR HER. Her Dad said I never called in and they said and neither did her Mother. This is why they are unexcused because she is lying. So he got home from work again and I asked about it and he said he was going to ask his daughter about it in a bit. Well she called and they hung up and I said well what did she say about the school attendance? He said AAAHHH SHOOT I FORGOT TO ASK HER. I said you have got to be kiddibg me> He said what is the big deal ITS NOT THE FIRST TIMES SHE HAS LIED TO ME AND IT WONT BE THE LAST!!! I was so amazed. Did he seriously just say that? and he never did ask her. I was so mad, ONCE AGAIN YOU DONT MAKE HER OWN UP TO HER WRONG DOINGS, AND SHE WILL NEVER AMOUNT TO ANYTHING IF YOU KEEP DOING THIS. He said WHY DONT YOU JUST MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS, CAUSE ITS NOT YOUR DAUGHTER.

This is just one of the issues that I have a hard time getting over. So here is something else that has happened. She got kicked out of her Moms house because she is so disrespectful and does not appreciate anything. So she moved in with her boyfriend in another towN. Well that lasted 3 months and the boyfriends Mom kicked her and him out. So she went back to her moms house for like 2 weeks but they do not get along. So grandma offered her a place to live and she didnt do it, because she would have rules and she didnt want to have to deal with that. So her Dad stays here with me sometimes but other times him and his brother have a place. So she thought since her Dad stayed here that she would ask to move in. Well I said NO WAY!!!!! First of she has had myrsa and was treated then like a month ago had another outbreak. She did not go to Dr. to get med. It ruptured on its own and she did nothing about it. She also told me that the hospital said it was not myrsa after the test came back. They said it was a staff infection. I said WELL WHAT THE HECK IS MYRSA THEN?? I have a licensed daycare in my home and i cannot take the chance of this in my house because of my job and because of my children and myself. So her Dad found a apartment and him and her are now living together. This made me so mad. I sound who cares if she didnt want to live with her Mom or Grandma. She made her bed so she needs to lay in it. I also felt like he picked her over our relationship. Is this a normal feeling or what is my deal? He said he just wants to get her thru school and then things will be different. Can anyone give me advice on what you think I should do about this? Do i just walk away? i have tried and it is so hard. He is good to me in the big picture, I just feel like no matter what he will drop everything for his daughter.