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Dreading this trip

Lifer33's picture

Just a vent really 

Since we took ss 12 long haul a few months ago he has suddenly morphed into full on teenager. Skipped all his contacts (scheduled nights and weekend stays) bar 2.

He did turn up Tues night,  but had a face like thunder n scowled at Me when I asked how his day was 

This was after dh read him the riot act Sunday ( when myself and dd were away mind you ) for having some more important thing to do with friends , typically on dh time.

I actually raided the Courage to say to a friend , if this is how is going to be from now on I wish he'd just do one,  for good! Dh and bd get so upset when he doesn't show, and I get miffed at personally paying for him to only show up if there's a holiday in it for him,  it seems 

 

How did you navigate the teenage years with a spoilt selfish brat already ?

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Stepdrama2020's picture

If you are so inclined.

If not disengage, or do both. LOL

Why are you paying for the selfish brat anyways?

Lifer33's picture

Hehe. Probably too much so!

I earn more than dh so essentially all the trips are on me and can't really leave him out. Although I have taken to taking bd away solo quite often so that gets us out of any arguments. And I've also come up with a plan for me dh and bd to holiday whilst ss is away with his mother, so he would be none the wiser! Unfortunately ss takes after bm for bragging, and I dnt know what happened possibly covid, but all these big holidays she's planned so far didn't actually materialise (eyeroll) so for example in December we will be abroad without him. But what can you do, if I tell someone I'm doing something I do it. Not brag n mess everyone around 6 months later 

Aniki-Moderator's picture

How old is your bd? Can you not tell her when ss is expected to eliminate disappointment?