Long vent over very little but I can't stand the devious mare. Keep in mind the main things discussed in Dec mediation was clear communication and no going via ss and his phone when booking holidays /changes.

Well they took ss away this half term, only knew the week before via his phone. Just about gave us time to book a mini camping break too. We enjoyed it so decided to book again and take ss. IF dh could get the dates off work. Unbeknown to me dh has both cleared it work and told ss, so annoyed at the comms on his part too.

Suddenly dhs inbox is full of forwarded information from bm, all the introduction stuff for ss new high school. One after the other, but includes the sent to her bf weeks ago! So I'm sat there scratching my head thinking, we've got all this ourselves, can only assume she is trying to rub dhs nose in the fact her bf gets told first. Oh well, replied thank you we have this information, and will raise now that it's unfortunate his induction day is 3rd Sept, primary schools don't go back then. We have booked a party we can't change so can't dh grab him from school that day and bring him straight here (large reptiles he really wants to see lol)

Bm responds, he needs to come and get changed then you can get him or ill being him. Also can you tell me exactly when your holiday is, mine is x.

Ahhh so, all that forwarded guff with school dates was simply because ss had mentioned our holiday. She's just dying to know when, never tells us about hers and wouldn't of unless she needed to play a hand. Why not just ask in first place, say what you want /to know 

Now the bit thats peed me off the most. Why you gonna drag your kid through 3 different towns to 'get changed' he stays here the Thursday night he could bring and leave clothes for the Friday! The party's only 3 to 5 so he will miss the show by time he lands! If she has to work the morning and wants to collect him from his first day of high school (all I can assume?) just bloody say it!!!

I'm so tired of the devious, blackmail, lying, excuses. We'd get on a whole lot better if she ever actuality said what she means n wants . I said to dh just tell them to forget it hell have to miss out, let that be on her to tell him over a change of clothes