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BM irritated me so much, I texted her and opened up a can of psychotic worms! Has this happened to you???
So, Friday night at 11:15, I'm out back on our patio and I hear DH's phone ring. Instantly, I feel my adrenaline start pumping and I KNOW who it is..I just had that feeling. I give it 15 seconds and I walk in and DH is in the living room on the phone and I hear "I don't care, call the police, I can't help you."
SD broke my heart..Ugh...DH and I aren't sure what to do anymore.
So today, SD was upset and I could tell. I asked what was wrong and she was hesitant to tell me, but I could tell she wanted to talk. Finally she opened up and told me. :jawdrop:
Anyone have experience with out of state custody/visitation? SD knows we're moving across country.....
DH took the kids over to see MIL lastnight before MIL moves back to VA. I blogged about whether we Should move and be happy or stay here and hate it to keep SD close to her psychotic mother for their supervised visits. I talked to DH about how I feel bad for wanting to take SD 3000 miles away from her insane family and DH doesn't care how SD feels about it. His thoughts are "She'll get over it and if she doesn't, oh well..not her choice..It's better for her in the long run." Well, I've made it a point to keep this highly likely idea of moving to VA a secret from SD10.
Look in your daughters mouth, BM!!! Ugh!
All three kids had a dentist appointment yesterday! FINALLY!!!! I'm sooo happy..we finally have great dental insurance for the kids-SD10 BS3 BD6. It went great for our kids. No cavities or problems and the dentist said they have beautiful teeth. SD on the other hand, poor thing, had a broken tooth on the bottom and 4 other cavities.
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Not sure what to do. Advice pleassse
DH and I live on the west coast of the US in the Pacific Northwest and some of his family and most of my family live in Virginia. We have always wanted to move to VA. DH is originally from VA and I've only visited, but I absolutely LOVE it there.
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Feel like I'm walking on eggsehlls around SD10 and I don't know how to handle it.
I mentioned in my last blog that I didn't want to sound mean when it comes to discipline. I have no problems telling BD6 and BS3 the rules, consequences and laying down the law, but for some reason when it comes to SD10, I feel like I have to walk on eggshells and it's driving me nuts. I'm trying to avoid making her miserable living here, but I know she already is. I know she would rather live with her psychotic mother, weird grandparents or her druggie aunt instead of living here in a stable loving home, but thats another story.
Are your step kids greedy with their belongings? Hate to share "their" stuff? How to handle that?
So, since SD10 has been living with us, I've noticed some traits of hers that I hate.
It's been awhile. A little update and a question-
So, it has been 6 months since DH got full custody of SD. BM still has supervised visits and it doesn't look like this will change anytime soon. BM still isn't working and isn't paying childsupport-nothing new. SD is doing really well here with us. SD's mood swings are gone and she looks healthier. A couple weeks ago DH had to take BM's number out of SD's phone to block contact because BM was saying inappropriate things. Then, a week after DH put her number back in the phone, SD was on the phone with BM and started bawling when she hung up.
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Is that light? I think I see a faint light at the end of the tunnel. BM, You're a winner!
Ah, BM, you're such a winner! You make everyone so proud..even your children! *GAG* Last week, BM decided to check herself into a mental health/drug and alcohol treatment center.
The one who really tried.
While SD10 and BD6 were at school yesterday I went into their room to hang some clothes up in their closet and I put their folded clothes on their dressers to be put away by them after school. On the floor in the space between their dressers was a pretty pink piece of crumpled scrapbook paper from SD10's scrapbook her mother bought her. I bent over and picked it up to throw away. I tossed it in their trash can when I noticed the word "mom" on it. I picked it back up and smoothed it out. I was definitely in shock by what it said. It was SD's handwriting and it said: "I miss my old mom..
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