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Submitted by LaMareOssa on Fri, 12/17/2010 - 3:52pm

Dear BM,

Heres another letter for you, you idiot.

I know it must be so fucking hard being you, with the non existant employment, zero responsibility, everyone wiping your ass for you, I know life must be so tiring and difficult. I know how hard it must be for you to arrange to have SOMEONE ELSE take YOUR kids to ballet and tap and soccer that YOU INSIST they go to. I understand you have some community service to complete within 6 months, I know that must be so fucking time consuming. GROW UP, you dirty hampster.

BM weasels her way out of 1yr in jail and $5000.00 fine. GRRRR

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Submitted by LaMareOssa on Mon, 12/13/2010 - 7:14pm

I don't know how she does it everytime. EVERY SINGLE TIME! Every time she gets in trouble, she gtesx away with it.

This time, she was on trial for DV and and something else. We just got a copy of the stipulations. For 18 months, she has to stay out of trouble, and she must complete 1000 hours of community service. REALLY?!?!?!? For assault?!?!?! NO JAIL TIME! NO FINES! Just ANOTHER slap on the wrist and "Be good for 18 months"

O/T - Does anyone know of any websites that are Similar to StepTalk?

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Submitted by LaMareOssa on Sat, 12/04/2010 - 3:15pm

I LOVE StepTalk! But this site is focused on step parenting issues. Does anyone know of websites that are similar to Step Talk that focus on marriage/relationships?

I LOVE this place and I Love all the wonderful people here, but I can't come here to vent/talk/get advice on marriage and relationships. I guess I need to vent about step parenting AND my marriage Dirol

How has being a Step Parent changed the way you parent your Bios?

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Submitted by LaMareOssa on Wed, 12/01/2010 - 9:11pm

I know it has changed me. DH and I have two children together. BD almost 5 and DS 18 months.

I know I am/going to push them both to do good in school, to be well mannered, to be grateful for what they have, be thankful, respectful productive children and adults. I already expect my daughter to be polite and respectful. I do Not accept rudeness or entitlement behavior from our kids. I will expect good grades and nothing less. Children need to be guided and disciplined when needed..IMHO of course.

SDs teacher wants DH AND BM to go to conference TOGETHER!! Yikes!

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Submitted by LaMareOssa on Tue, 11/16/2010 - 2:35pm

DH just called and the first thing out of his mouth was "Listen to this BullS*it" I was thinking either BM is pulling some shit again or something happened at work. He said that SDs teacher just called him and asked if him AND bm could do the student led teacher conference TOGETHER! DH politely told the teacher that he and ms. "dipshit" do not get along, they have not been able to go to a conference together since SD was in preschool. SD is now in 3rd grade.

Time for Mediation-Yay! *GAG*

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Submitted by LaMareOssa on Thu, 11/11/2010 - 2:46pm

I recently wrote a blog about BM screwing up DHs visitation with SD- Plain refused to cooperate and have SD to DH at the time and place. Mediation Time-AGAIN! :sick:

This isn't the first time BM has either interfered with visitation or just denied it. I'm tired of it! Now, not only does her silly antics hurt DH, it now hurts OUR children that DH and I have together. I'M the one who has to explain to our BD4.5 that SD isn't coming. I have to explain to a young child the nicest way I can, that SDs mother isn't letting SD come over. BullShit IMO.

BM violates visitation orders-advice?

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Submitted by LaMareOssa on Wed, 11/10/2010 - 1:07pm

Lastnight DH was supposed to get SD for his 2 hour visit from 6-8PM. He gets a text at 430PM from BMs father saying theyre having car trouble again and wants DH to drive 45 minutes to their office to get SD. DH has done this in the past, but now theyre taking advantage of it. DH said no, it's not in my plans or budget to drive all the way there and back. DH gets a call from BMs father asking why he can't come get SD, DH explains again that it's not in his plans or budget this week. BMs father says well I have no options, DH tells him that actually, he does.

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