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DH and I are no longer planning our weekends around SD's EOW.
On Saturday, DH, BD5, BS2 and myself all went on a beautiful train ride through the mountains without SD. SD will be coming over tonight and I know DD5 will not be able to help herself; She's going to tell all about it.
DisneyLand without SD!!! Wow!! Should I feel horrible?
So, BD4 will officially be 5 in June. And my MIL offered to take us all to DisneyLand in CA. for her birthday!!!! BUTTTTTT...wait for it...
Another no show for SD. Now, SD acts like shes afraid of me!! WTF.
So, Friday DH went to go pick up SD and BM was a no show. Again.
DH gets a call from SD saying she isn't feeling good and wants to stay home and DH just says fine. Then he says he will get her tomorrow (sat) if shes feeling better. SD didn't know what to say, she got really quiet and monotone. DH went and got SD on sat. I'm assuming because BM needed a baby sitter.
What do you think? Sounds to me like DH is making shit harder on SD.
As I have said before, BM is crazy. DH is currently, as I type, writing up a proposed parenting plan and his modification request. I called him and we talked about all the crap going on. He started to talk about having SD every TWO days sooo....Mon and Tue SD would be here Wed and Thur SD would be with BM Thurs-Sun SD would be with whose ever weekend it is at the time!!!!!!!!!
Sooo that's why you need DH's weekend in August, eh?
DH and I just found out why BM "NEEDS SD for the first weekend in August.
DH picked up SD at 6PM lastnight for his regular two hour visit. They came home and I was in the kitchen playing with BD5 and BS2 and cooking dinner. DH walks in and gives everyone big hugs and kisses as usual. He looks back at SD slyly and waits for her to leave the kitchen. DH says "Found out why dipshit wants the first weekend!!" I said yeah? He says "BM is getting married!"
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Ladies..a Quick question about SD's school. Is this normal for elementary school?
My SD9 is in 3rd grade. She goes to public school. A school that BM INSISTED she HAS to go to, even though BM was out of district. SD has been going since Kindergarten. It's a public school that has a pretty good rating, however, she has 3 recesses and half days every single Friday. Is this normal??? Other schools in the area have only two recesses and no half days.
She has half days each Fri. due to clubs. SD has a lot of "pajama days" where the kids just sit around the classroom floor with books all day.
"I NEED SD the first weekend in August, you can have her the weekend before or the weekend after"
"I NEED SD for the first weekend in August. You may have her the weekend before or the weekend after. Let me know what you decide ASAP." This is the text DH received Saturday night. LMAO. Bitch.
I'm So Fuc*ing Tired Of It All!!!!!!!!!
OMG! I'm so fed up right now!
Lastnight SD was suppose to see DH for two hours, as usual. And of course she didn't come. SD sent DH a text 20 minutes before pick up that said "I dont feel good" DH calls her and asks her whats wrong. SD says she has a tummy ache and her head just starting hurting 10 minutes ago. DH just says "ok, whatever." I'm so fucking tired of this shit. For 9 years BM has tried her best to alienate SD from DH. Good job BM, seems as though your tactics are starting to finally work.
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BM is about to start some crap. Yippee.
A few weeks ago, BM violated the parenting plan. AGAIN. This is nothing new and DH gets a police report each time. Also, BM ignored all attempts from the Mediator to attend mediation before court. Anyway, so after this, BM hasn't said anything to DH. She is acting like nothing has happened.
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It's been months since I posted! Updates.
Oh, wow! I haven't posted since before Thanksgiving, I believe. So much has happened. BM is still completely insane. SD is not doing well.
I will try to keep this short and to the point. Back in Nov or Oct. BM was told by the judge to be good for 18 months(She assaulted her boyfriend and ran over his dog, assualted a police officer and resisted arrest.) She got off. The judge told her she has to stay out of trouble for 18 months.
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