I know it's coming, the BM knows I make more than DH and asks for pricey gifts for the skids. I can see it happening in a year when SD14 starts driving and wants a car. Already the SD14 tells DH he's "rich". No, we just don't spend into oblivion. After two years of using every dime outside of bills towards divorce debt DH will finally be done. BM tried to get money out of DH by harassing him about braces for the SD14. I told him to pay the dentist directly for his half because we knew she wanted the money for Christmas. Did she get the SD braces she said were sooooo important? Hell no! Dentist reimbursed DH in full and charged the BM $400! That was an awesome victory!

Now that DH and I are married it is OUR money minus the CS. If he pays extra that means I am paying for half. Extra is not happening.