What do you girls do to boost your self esteem and self confidence when the going gets rough and you have very little support from others? I am at a very low point with myself. My DH is not an encourager as a matter of fact he the opposite. I think he wants to feel superior, so relying on him is masochistic in a way. I found out that he told someone that I was a few years older than him??? Why on earth would he do that when I am actually a few years younger?

Finally ordered my Copy of Stepmonster this morning...I'll get it Friday in time for the weekend. I am hoping that reading it will help take me out of this gloom I have been under for sometime by giving me some insight and understanding as to why people do the things they do. Looking forward to getting my book! Just wanted to share

SD11's top 5
1. No matter what her father is eating or drinking she has to eat off his plate or drink from his glass.
2. She thinks it is ok to use her Father's toothbrush and so does he because they are related???????????
3. She and her little posse of fellow narcissists spend hours at a time in the bathroom and eat and drink in there.
4. She can run around, eat, drink right next to a pile of dog crap and not think a thing about it until she's told to clean up after her dog and then somehow it is gross?????????

I found this while surfing the net. This is interseting to any of us who deal with situations that makes us feel uncomfortable between SP/SK...kind of scary because a few of these things occur at my house....1,11,13
WAYS ADULTS CROSS A CHILD’S SEXUAL BOUNDARIES

1) Touching the buttocks or future erogenous zones.