I am disengaged from my SD11 for the most part. I do have days when I have a pity party for myself about it though. I often wonder what I did to deserve such little respect and why my SD treats me like I am not even there. Things like says bye or hello to her father and not me or asking him questions that obviously would be a questions that you ask me. She has gotten to where she won't eat anything I cook and acts as if there is no place she would rather not be than at home unless of course her father promises to take her somewhere or buy her something.

FDH posted a picture of his daughter on facebook and it said "She's out of school for summer my little angel" :sick:
I guess I'm just jealous cause he doesn't have one picture of me on his facebook...oh well.

I know I shouldn't have but I opened the computer to check my Facebook and it was still logged on to FDH account and I saw his messages. There was one from his ex-wife (not BM)...she said that she was moving back to the area and wanted to see him and his daughter and then it said it has been a long time FDH name.

We were going to the store for just a minute and actually went without FSD going. As we were pulling out FDH says "She is going to wonder where I'm going and be so mad when she realizes I'm gone" I tell him "she'll get over it...I'm sure of it...She doesn't need to go everywhere you go shadowing you like she's five...she is almost 11 years old" He says "but she is very attached to her daddy...she has always been a real daddy's girl" I just shake my head and don't say anything.