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The computer

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We have a computer in the garage that is DHs. ODS likes to play games on it but DH doesnt want him to because hes supposedly worried the computer is going to die sooner. SD displays zero interest in playing on this computer.

Still sick of stepbrat

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SD left with her aunt and cousins to go to their grandmas house. ODS was feeling kind of left out and said he wished he could go. SD responded that she didnt wish he could go. I asked her if she thought that was a nice thing to say and she said no. I don't think she even was trying to be mean, it's just that she didnt care if it was because she had no purpose in being nice to him at the time and it was the truth.

SD ignores DH

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SD just got back to our house today after being gone 8 days. When DH got home he expectantly looked downstairs expecting her to rush up and make a big scene like usual. She just walked past him without a word. No idea why. This is FAR from the first time shes done that, but still the majority of the time it's the fakey over the top Hi Daddeee in the baby voice when he gets home. I asked DH if he was offended she didnt say hi and he said no. Doubt it.

Karma

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I touched on this a tiny bit in my last blog entry, but apparently BM and her fiance have not set a date because they've had too difficult of a time with getting the kids to adjust to living together. Reading between the lines of what she said combined with random things SD has told me it appears that her fiance is very much in the same situation as me: SD bullies his kid and fiance doesn't really want to be around SD much. Is it wrong that it kinda makes me smirk a little and feel like this is karma for BM?

Personality disorders

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I've come to the conclusion that if you have to be in close proximity to personality disordered people you're basically screwed.

Well maybe one could possibly be dealt with but a BM, SD and MIL? Nope, I'm screwed unless DH would be willing to cut off multiple family members and I doubt that's going to happen ever. 

Anyone else have skids always creeping?

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Anyone else skids constantly spying on everyone? She definitely does it the worst with DH, but its definitely not just limited to him. And it seems to be the most when DH and I are together. Walk in from the attached garage and surprise! There's skidly listening next to the door. Walk over to the stairs (split level house) oh there she is again listening to us again. 

Kind of want to just tell MIL to F off

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So DH and I got in a fight because he wants an axe throwing board in a garage and when he asked what I thought about it I said I didnt think that was a great idea. Because our garage has too much stuff in it to get broken and it doesnt meet the safety requirements suggested for that type of thing. So anyway DH right away starts pouting that I never let him do what he wants (bullsh*t) and that he has no say about his own house (nvm that my response to the majority of his suggestions is I dont care).

What a difference when daddy is around

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So if any of you remember the baby gate incident - where SD had zero reaction to DS1 falling down the stairs in front of her - heres the contrast in behavior when DH is watching. All of us were outside, ODS9 is playing with DS1. SD is nearby doing her own thing. DS1 was going down his toddler size slide and must have went off the side of it or something along those lines. He wasnt actually hurt but it must have scared him or something. I went over to help him and SD didnt react at all. DH had been in the front yard and came back to see what DS was crying for.

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