Ok I know something about my MIL because my mom and her are best friends that my DH does not know yet and its killing me. I keep encouraging him to stop by her house for this and that so she can tell him the news. She is moving 2 hours away and I think my hubby will freak. He has already freaked that his siblings all ditched town and hate to come back for visits, he's going to go through the roof when he finds out that his mother is moving. He already hates that she doesn't make the effort to see us when she lives two blocks away unless she wants something... She is moving for better income options with her career but she happens to be moving closer to some of his siblings and my DH is such an idiot he will think she is moving to be closer to them and abandoning him. really he is 42 years old its time to let mom go live her own life and ...as much as I love my MIL...I am so glad she is going to go live he own life becuase she is single and has health issues every time she needs anything done my DH has to go do it. We will be able to live our own lives too... She only calls when she wants something. Which is her gripe about my husband too. That's how his family is thought, they don't call to say Hi how are you, they call to say hey I need a favor...But she will be further away from meddling in my life too Anyway my hubby has abadndomnet issues from his father and first falied marriage so I know he will freak with this news and I jsut want her to tell him so we can get on with it and deal with it. I am kinda excited because she is moving closer to my BIL whom is married to my best friend and this will give me an excuse to visit her more...I can take the boys to see thier grandma and uncle and visit my best friend all at once...and we have grandma to babysit so we can go do girlfriend stuff that travelling iwth kids keeps us from doing right now when we visit each other...I am also a little bit excited too because if my DH is the last of his family in town then maybe he will be willing to move for better pay once his kids graduate from high school, and then I can finally pursue my dreams...just maybe