OH my for the last 10 years we have all been upset when BM puts the kdis in the middle to work her own agenda and I just got another phone call from SD15 infroming me that my in laws are still trying to use my step kids to get thier way for Christmas plans. In october we all sat down with the inlaws to plan Christmas and picked the weekend before and that we would host it. Well more inlaws like my DH's aunts and uncles are now getting together the 27th. So my SIL, BIL and MIL want us to move xmas with them to the 26th so they only have to travel once...Well we laready have plans with my family the 26th out of town that we are not changing. So my in lwas are now telling my stepkids to tell us that they want to change it. My step kids don't want to change it either because they have mroe fun with my family adn changing it would mean missing xmas with my family...where they actually get gifts...and the kids are actually being responsible enough to tell us this is going on and that my inlaw are playing the same games that everyone in the family has bitched about BM for the past 10 years. I have half the mind to cancel Chrsitmas with the inlaws, and tell off SIL the ring leader in this new escapade to try to get the kids to pursuay us...Seriously are they all fucking nuts, have they not realized that I do not change my plans to give my stepkids what htey want. I'm just pissed at the immaturity and the hypocrycy..lets spend 12 years bitching about a woman for putting the kids in the middle to get what she wants then go and ude those smae kids to try to orchstrate what you want...