So the judge did not address everything FDH needed him to so there will be another modification date the judge is setting up. All contempt charges have been dropped.

1) FDH got medical decisions changed to 100% him unless there is an emergency. This is great we can finally get SD into the counseling she needs.

So we went to drop SD off at BM apartment Friday. BM was not there so we called her. After FDH gets off the phone with her this guy with a loaded 9mm gun comes to my window. I'm freaking out having an anxiety attack and he tries to serve me with a no trespassing order. FDH intercepts and gives the letter back to him. Then the guy goes back to his apartment and puts the gun in his house. He was using it to try and intimidate me and FDH. Well i was scared shit less i was never around guns. Of course FDH wasn't phased he spent 12 years in the army.

So DH and BM were talking and she keeps telling him stuff that is in SD medical records that she refuses to give us despite the court order. He got her so mad she finally confessed she is not a full time student she does schooling online. So thank you BM for winning our child support modification on the 4th. I greatly appreciate it. She no longer is considered a full time student so her child support that she doesn't pay half the time will be raised. Man i can't wait to see her run out of the court room crying again.

Since when in the hell can Doctors give information out over the phone? We got an email from BM stating she talked to the Doctor SD goes to and she found out all about SD4 Dr. visits and whats in her medical file. How in the hell can they guarantee who they are talking to. BM is not on any of the medical paperwork except as her mother. FDH and BM have joint decision making and she was told if she wanted to be contacted she needed to go to the Dr. office and give them the info. I would think you would need to be there in person so they are not giving information to just anyone.