My BF's daughter is still having issues with him dating. We've been together for 3 1/2 years.
She and I were introduced about 1 1/2 years ago. I do not stay over when she is there, we just do things together and then I go home.

She obviously is still having issues with her dad being with someone. Sometimes when I am around she is overly demonstrative with her dad. To the point of being inappropriate for a 13 year old and her father. This has been going on from the beginning, but her actions are becoming more inappropriate.

My BF had his daughter over the weekend, he has her every weekend except for second of the month. I feel like I fill in the cracks for him. What I mean is I just feel like I fill in the cracks when she's not around. I never know for sure what is going on...I sit around and wait to see if he is going to ahve her or not. Such as this weekend, he didn't know until Sunday night whether he was going to have her on Monday. We've talked about this before, and he said he knows how I feel that he would talk to BM and find out plans ahead of time, so I know what I'm doing!

Has anyone had the experience of being taken back to court to pay for extras. You know, summer school, dr bills, summer camp, etc. The half that BF is suppose to share with BM. I was just wondering if anyone has been taken to court for their half of the extras. My Bf's ex is even trying to get clothing expenses, claiming school uniforms are extra. I consider that same as clothing/food, etc that CS covers. BM sets the kids up in every kind of camp there is, summer school at the cost of $750 (even though they go to private schools), all without running any of this by my BF.

My BF and I had a long discussion last night and can't seem to come to an agreement on things. A little history, we have been seeing each other for 3 years. He has 2 girls, 17 and 12. the 17 year old doesn't visit anymore for other reasons the 12 year old he has every weekent Friday to Sunday except 1 weekend a month. Over the past 3 years I have pretty much sat home on weekends by myself while he has been with his kids. Finally met the kids about a year ago and see them on occasion.